your lover about your sexual needs and interest?
Absolutely not.
What on earth good would it do to tell a bunch of relatively anonymous strangers what my needs and desires are rather then tell my lover and achieve them!
If you cannot communicate what you need and desire with your actual lover then there is a problem with yourself that you need to fix.
Now if you are telling him/her of them, and they are not willing and/or able to work with you to fulfill them, then you need to make the decision of whether the relationship is worth continuing.
But to express your needs and desires more openly with strangers rather than the one person you SHOULD be telling, well that is as useless and self defeating as faking orgasms.
Not meaning to be pedantic here, simmer.
The topic isn't if you are open on lush, it is are you MORE open on lush THAN with your lover.
If you are, why are you not communicating your needs and desires with your lover as much as you do on an internet forum?
If someone is AS open or less open in an artificial environment, I could see no problem at all.
But to be more so, as I said seems useless and self defeating.
When I was married I was straight forward and honest.
I hope it has carried over to Lush.
No, I am much more private here.
I am. I talk with my partner what I want to a degree but all my own private sexual thoughts or ideas I put on Lush.
OFCOURSE ............................
Both- I'm open with my online friends and Real Life friends as well
No, I don't hide my wants, needs and desires from my husband...that would be defeating the purpose. How am I supposed to be satisfied if I keep it a secret and visa versa.
I have said this before and I stand by it, to me sex is just as important to a relationship as anything else...you need to be sexually compatible for both to be completely happy. I wouldn't marry someone I wasn't sexually compatible with (and I have been with my husband for 21 yrs), but it takes effort to stay on the same page. Communication is key!!!!
Lol. I'm as wild in real as I am here.
lush lets a girls naughty mind loose and go wild, how many of us can let that happen in in real life
i met so many beautiful sexy women here that i could never meet where i live, YES i'm more open here!
smile..maybe not quite as much..but very open in real
Although I am new in this site, judging by the way I have behaved in a similar site I was a member of, I would say I am much more open in my real life. Here I tent to keep things to myself....
Yes and no. My husband and I are very close, but I'm more open sexually so it keeps me from sharing all my desires because they usually get shut down.
No, I'm completely open about sex online and off. Shockingly so, according to some of my friends.
I'm fully honest with my partner with likes and dislikes. but i dont think anywhere else i'd tell anyone i didn't know my bedroom likes and dislikes