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wait... are you asking me how i feel about you asking your wife to do anal?
cause i kind of feel like it's going to be awkward.
cause i kind of feel like it's going to be awkward.
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Can you girls telll me how you feel about anal sex and how I can persuade my wife to try it?
I really don't enjoy anal sex. It's something that I didn't like the first time I tried it and subsequent attempts haven't changed my mind about it. Of course, your wife may be one of those women who enjoy anal sex and just needs to try it one time to understand what's been missing from her life all this time. Who knows?
Here's my plan for you. It very likely that your wife hasn't been exposed to the joys of anal sex. She probably just thinks of it as something you want to do to her rather than do with her. The fact that you feel you have to persuade her to do it shows that it's not something she's comfortable with. You have to help her change that attitude.
Buy your wife a strap on with a ten or twelve inch dildo. Have her put it on, cover the dildo with ky jelly and fuck you in the ass with it. Show her that it's not so bad having a big stiff cock up the ass. Keep doing this until she begins to think that having a dick up the ass might not be so bad. Point out that your own dick isn't anywhere near as big as the one she's using on you. That's why it's important to get a large enough dildo. It needs to be substantially bigger than your own penis. Surely, you can point out, if you can take that massive thing up the poop chute, she can handle your normal sized penis.
Try not to bleed too much or cry too loud when you use the bathroom afterwards though. The idea is to appear to be enjoying yourself.
Alternately, you could promise to buy her a diamond necklace. Maybe the diamond necklace should be plan A.
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I like Ruthie's thinking. Let your wife do you first.
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Even though she probably meant it sarcastically I think the approach Ruthie describes isn't the worse idea. I always tell friends who are girls who have boyfriends that want to do it to them instead of with them to agree but only if they get to do the boys first.
Some have done so and not only does it help to see whether they want to share the experience or just have +1 on anal sex. It also makes the idea of anal sex easier for girls who are a little reluctant towards it.
How ever.. what I should have started of with saying was that communication is the key here. The fact that you have the idea you need to find a way to persuade here means you're not sure how she feels about it in the first place. I personally think you can't talk enough about sex with your partners because it makes it so much better in every way. Try to make your relationship more open on this subject and discover each others wishes and feelings about things. Never pressure your wishes on your partner but let them know you've thought about things.
That usually does the trick for me!
Some have done so and not only does it help to see whether they want to share the experience or just have +1 on anal sex. It also makes the idea of anal sex easier for girls who are a little reluctant towards it.
How ever.. what I should have started of with saying was that communication is the key here. The fact that you have the idea you need to find a way to persuade here means you're not sure how she feels about it in the first place. I personally think you can't talk enough about sex with your partners because it makes it so much better in every way. Try to make your relationship more open on this subject and discover each others wishes and feelings about things. Never pressure your wishes on your partner but let them know you've thought about things.
That usually does the trick for me!
I really enjoy anal sex. I also enjoy anal play of any kind and I like some form of it each time I have sex or masturbate. I made a post about the first time I had anal sex here.
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postsm1310800_Tips-on-anal.aspx#1310800
It was very enjoyable for me and as I explain in my post, The orgasms from anal sex are much deeper and more intense. You must be aroused and totally relaxed in order to enjoy it though. The woman should dictate the pace and not be rushed at all.
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postsm1310800_Tips-on-anal.aspx#1310800
It was very enjoyable for me and as I explain in my post, The orgasms from anal sex are much deeper and more intense. You must be aroused and totally relaxed in order to enjoy it though. The woman should dictate the pace and not be rushed at all.
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wait... are you asking me how i feel about you asking your wife to do anal?
cause i kind of feel like it's going to be awkward.
Introduce the idea, the sensation, the reality, confidently and considerately.
Kiss her thighs, her lips. Tease her. Make her want it. Part her lips with your tongue, flick her clit.
Slip your index finger between her lips, hook it round to rub her pad, coating your finger with her juices.
Now use your tongue as you rub her rose bud gently with your lubed finger.
Put on some porn, (anal) for her to watch as you pleasure her.
The rest will follow in time.
Check out some of the other forums on the subject.
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Try introducing a slim butt plug into your sex play first...
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Try introducing a slim butt plug into your sex play first...
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Even though she probably meant it sarcastically I think the approach Ruthie describes isn't the worse idea.
I was only being partially sarcastic. If my husband walks in with a diamond necklace, I'll offer him anal sex.
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Damn that's an expensive way to play!
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Like the women on here that enjoy anal sex, I absolutely love it. I love the feel of a hard cock pressing up against my most intimate opening. I love feeling the pressure of his cock as it penetrates me initially. When his cock heads pops inside it makes me moan in sexual earnest for more. My current lover likes to slowly penetrate me until all 10 inches are buried deep inside of me. It's such an exquisite feeling. Having my ass creamed is so hot.
So far 10 inches is the biggest that has been inside of me and I'm on my quest to find a bigger thicker cock to satisfy my anal urges.
So far 10 inches is the biggest that has been inside of me and I'm on my quest to find a bigger thicker cock to satisfy my anal urges.
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I was only being partially sarcastic. If my husband walks in with a diamond necklace, I'll offer him anal sex.
How materialistic of you
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Like the women on here that enjoy anal sex, I absolutely love it. I love the feel of a hard cock pressing up against my most intimate opening. I love feeling the pressure of his cock as it penetrates me initially. When his cock heads pops inside it makes me moan in sexual earnest for more. My current lover likes to slowly penetrate me until all 10 inches are buried deep inside of me. It's such an exquisite feeling. Having my ass creamed is so hot.
So far 10 inches is the biggest that has been inside of me and I'm on my quest to find a bigger thicker cock to satisfy my anal urges.
You're only talking about length here and in my experience the diameter of the object inserted is just as or even more important. Wouldn't you agree?