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A woman's perspective on cross dressing

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I would love to hear a woman's point of view about cross dressing. Is it a turn on, a turn off, disgusting, sexy? From my lifetime experiences, most women are turned off, they want their man to be masculine, not show any signs of perceived weakness. Are all women that way or are some open minded about the whole thing?

I'm curious to hear some opinions..... from women! I know most guys don't care for the topic at all!

Thanks,

Teri
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I know personally I do not find cross dressing a turn on. I like my man to be dominant. Which is hard to pull off in a dress....lol. But I don't find it disgusting if other people like it. I try to be open minded. It's just not sexy at all to me.

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I have heard that before...lol. Thanks for the feedback, I know it is not for everyone. One woman told me that if she saw a guy in lingerie, she would lose all respect for him, she wanted a man and was not a lesbian... It is had for a guy to be dominant in a dress, I agree with ya!
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My boyfriend is a crossdresser. He definitely looks lovely when dressed. I, personally don't mind when he dresses up. He simply becomes a girlfriend with gorgous taste and fashion sense. He does not do it often and only after asking me if it is ok. He is still the man I love andhis crossdressing is no big thing. We each have our own 'thing' dont we? JinianVictoria
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You are quiye a woman! Very open minded, your boyfriend is lucky to have you!
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I don't have anything against cross-dressing, but it's not something that turns me on. If I picture my husband in a dress and high heels, the image doesn't strike me as sexy.

We all have our different turn-ons. That one just doesn't work for me.
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It doesn' do anything foe me. Besides, I don't like having my clothes streatched out!

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I don't have anything against cross-dressing, but it's not something that turns me on. If I picture my husband in a dress and high heels, the image doesn't strike me as sexy.

We all have our different turn-ons. That one just doesn't work for me.


At least you seem open minded about it and that is a good thing. It is definitely not for everyone. Thanks for the feedback!
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It doesn' do anything foe me. Besides, I don't like having my clothes streatched out!


How about if he has his own things?
I caught hell for stretching things out years ago and finally got up the nerve to get my own things....
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It doesn' do anything foe me. Besides, I don't like having my clothes streatched out!


How about if he has his own things?
I caught hell for stretching things out years ago and finally got up the nerve to get my own things....


Well, if he has his own things that's different.
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I agree with some of the other girls, I want my man to take control and be dominate in the relationship. If i wanted to feel like i am with another woman i would just be with another woman.
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Another opinion I respect and that is a comment I heard from my wife many years ago, so needless to say she does not care to "know" Teri, but that is okay, I respect that, but I feel she is missing out on sharing a special part of me...... I hope everyone had a great Christmas!
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I think it's cute! I wrote my first 3 stories about me only I was a male crossdresser! (Don't ask LoL) I personally wouldn't be with a guy like that, but I thinks it's cute!
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I find it incredibly sexy for a man to have the confidence and courage to crossdress.
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l have a very nice colllection of panties and lingerie, some of which l have bought for my self to share with my GF and more of what she has bought for me....We've had alot of fun with me being dressed as a woman and sharing back with her....It's just so fun to walk into a womans clothing store and ask the sale woman if this will fit me and she'll most of time ask if l need some help trying these things on....omg .... yes please VJ
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I don't like the idea of cross-dressing in a guy and none of my bf's have ever done it......to my knowing anyway.
but i'd like them to tell me if they did so I could decide whether to put up with it or not.
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Imagine if a guy looked better than a woman in her clothes....aaarrrrggghhh!
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Not a turn on for me but I did have a boyfriend wear my see through red panties once. His big hard on looked sexy through those red bikini's
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I'm the sissy who is also a transexual. You would be surprised to know of all the straight guys that have been in me already. I love it. And, my Mistresses & their girlfriends love seeing me doing it.
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My hubbie has been a CD since he was 9. I love for him to dress up and we go out as girl friends.
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i am tiny, so i usually end up being dominated by the men i'm with. Every now and then though, it's fun for me to be the dominant one, and i make them dress up like girls for me and put on panties and bras and make-up...it's more of a fantasy than something that really turns me on. But it is a fun diversion every now and then with the right guy. Just my 2 cents...lol.
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It doesn' do anything foe me. Besides, I don't like having my clothes streatched out!


How about if he has his own things?
I caught hell for stretching things out years ago and finally got up the nerve to get my own things....


Well, if he has his own things that's different.


I would not dream of stretching a lady's clothes out. If she is tolerant of my crossdressing, the least I can do is have enough respect for her to have my own things.
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Definitely NOT a turn-on for me. I can understand that some guys want to be a woman (and some women want to be a man). If so, then maybe the solution is for the cross-dressing man hook up with a woman who wants to be a man? But a man who just loves the feel of woman's lingerie? Doesn't do ANYTHING for me!
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Whatever turns you on ,I'm not a judger
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Quote by JinianVictoria
My boyfriend is a crossdresser. He definitely looks lovely when dressed. I, personally don't mind when he dresses up. He simply becomes a girlfriend with gorgous taste and fashion sense. He does not do it often and only after asking me if it is ok. He is still the man I love andhis crossdressing is no big thing. We each have our own 'thing' dont we? JinianVictoria

My fiancée loves me dressing up. We do it together at home and we havfons out discretely dressed up together.

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I couldn't careless but I will say, purchase clothes that fits you perfectly and blend, blend blend that eyeshadow.

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No judgement as I couldn't care less. Doesn't really do anything for me tbh