I heard it said once that oral sex could be considered more intimate than intercourse. I have begun to understand that thought process but was wondering if I could have a more feminine perspective on the topic. So gals, is oral sex less, more, or equally intimate to intercourse? Why do you think that?
No. It's not more intimate. Intimacy for me is full body contact and being face to face. Eye contact and lips kissing.
It's hot and alluring but not intimate like sex.
I don't think of it as more intimate at all.
It isn't more intimate for me, but I have been in my relationship for a long time. I can see why someone in a new relationship might say that because some might think it takes a bit more trust to allow someone to go down on you than to have intercourse with you. Also, when you are new at receiving oral (as a woman) it takes a bit of letting go to allow yourself to enjoy it. Some women don't allow themselves to enjoy oral as they should and doing that takes trust which would require intimacy.
I think foreplay is more intimate than oral,
I adore oral...but face to face is more intimate....I have a thing for lips and eyes...
