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69 - too distracting?
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The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.
The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.
With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.
The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.
With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.
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Quote by Dani
The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.
The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.
With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.
I could not have said it better
Quote by Dani
The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.
The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.
With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.
I disagree but let's hear other gals' opinions!!
"Too distracting"? Interesting perspective. For me 69ing is a bit overwhelming, too much going on. I really prefer alternating pleasuring with my partner, rather than both of us having at it, since it allows me to express myself in response to what they are doing . A bit more focus, a bit more concentration, and really a LOT more intimacy. Also i thoroughly enjoy when the action switches, the transition, the messiness of it, the magic moment when i've been pleasured enough (for now 
at least) and now it's his turn to get my best. But 69 action is a good ice-breaker, so it has its place.
at least) and now it's his turn to get my best. But 69 action is a good ice-breaker, so it has its place. 
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Quote by Dani
The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.
The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.
With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.
this. while visually appealing, i don't get much out of it until i either stop and enjoy or get carried away with what i'm doing. i MUCH rather do one or the other.
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69 only works when you start out with a couple of 9s... The positioning can get awkward when you got two 0s going at it.
Quote by FITSWIMMER
I noticed one of your ladies responded to another post saying that she always found 69 too distracting to orgasm. I've always found the same thing ... erotic for a while, but then one of us would move so we could focus on making the other cum. Do you ever orgasm during 69?
Personally. I find 69 as the best way to achieve mutual orgasm.
My version of 69 is that i lay on my back with my head a bit hanging of the edge of the bed. My male partner climbs on top of me in 69. We use our oral and finger skills on pussy cock n ass to please each other. At one point i get so lost in pleasure that i stop working on his dick. This gives him an indication and he doubles his efforts on me. At the same time he starts thrusting his cock into my mouth to get his own pleasure.
We both usually cum together.
Those who find 69 distracting can adopt this method n see if it works.
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Quote by pink_pussy
Personally. I find 69 as the best way to achieve mutual orgasm.
My version of 69 is that i lay on my back with my head a bit hanging of the edge of the bed. My male partner climbs on top of me in 69. We use our oral and finger skills on pussy cock n ass to please each other. At one point i get so lost in pleasure that i stop working on his dick. This gives him an indication and he doubles his efforts on me. At the same time he starts thrusting his cock into my mouth to get his own pleasure.
We both usually cum together.
Those who find 69 distracting can adopt this method n see if it works.
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Quote by pink_pussy
Personally. I find 69 as the best way to achieve mutual orgasm.
My version of 69 is that i lay on my back with my head a bit hanging of the edge of the bed. My male partner climbs on top of me in 69. We use our oral and finger skills on pussy cock n ass to please each other. At one point i get so lost in pleasure that i stop working on his dick. This gives him an indication and he doubles his efforts on me. At the same time he starts thrusting his cock into my mouth to get his own pleasure.
We both usually cum together.
Those who find 69 distracting can adopt this method n see if it works.
this is the way i like it! 
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Quote by pink_pussy
Personally. I find 69 as the best way to achieve mutual orgasm.
My version of 69 is that i lay on my back with my head a bit hanging of the edge of the bed. My male partner climbs on top of me in 69. We use our oral and finger skills on pussy cock n ass to please each other. At one point i get so lost in pleasure that i stop working on his dick. This gives him an indication and he doubles his efforts on me. At the same time he starts thrusting his cock into my mouth to get his own pleasure.
We both usually cum together.
Those who find 69 distracting can adopt this method n see if it works.
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I love 69 too. I can't see how distracting it can be, there are times when you need to lift your head and breath while enjoying a sensation, but i also love when he lifts his head, tongue , fingers away to enjoy the sensations i gift to him. there is a rhythm two reach that ensures enjoyment is prolonged. I enjoy giving that enjoy meant and get just as much out of it as i receive sometimes. and receiving it is a wonderful experience. and usually in mutual agreement climax is reached together or one at a time. either way we usually lye beside each other after, catch our breath and enjoying the memories that are still racking out bodies.
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I love 69 too. I can't see how distracting it can be, there are times when you need to lift your head and breath while enjoying a sensation, but i also love when he lifts his head, tongue , fingers away to enjoy the sensations i gift to him. there is a rhythm two reach that ensures enjoyment is prolonged. I enjoy giving that enjoy meant and get just as much out of it as i receive sometimes. and receiving it is a wonderful experience. and usually in mutual agreement climax is reached together or one at a time. either way we usually lye beside each other after, catch our breath and enjoying the memories that are still racking out bodies.
love your point of view!
Depends on how I feel... I do enjoy them and feel that often the distraction of mutually using your mouths on each other prolongs the oral pleasure, however, I don't think I have ever had a mutual orgasm that way... at some stage one of you has to ease off to cum.
The only way I have ever had a mutual orgasm during 69 is to use my hand while he finishes me off with his mouth... cause I'm greedy like that
The only way I have ever had a mutual orgasm during 69 is to use my hand while he finishes me off with his mouth... cause I'm greedy like that
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I agree its distracting ... its impossible to watch the telly at the same time and thus I dont participate in this position.
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This may sound very convoluted, but I find it a turn on, not for me, but for my partner. Must guys I have been with get really turned on by 69. When they cum in my mouth, I cum.
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I find 69 a big turn on and not distracting at all. Most of the time it leads to mutual simultaneous orgasms. Especially when it involves one of our swing group that we can play bare back with. I have an orgasm when I feel his cum hit the back of my throat.
Brandie
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I am always on top and I always cum. The hard part for me is only if he cums in my mouth while I am cumming. I find that causes me to try split my focus.... one on my own orgasm and one on dealing with his cum. Challenging for me. But, usually I cum a lot more quickly than he does so it is much easier when we take turns.
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I am always on top and I always cum. The hard part for me is only if he cums in my mouth while I am cumming. I find that causes me to try split my focus.... one on my own orgasm and one on dealing with his cum. Challenging for me. But, usually I cum a lot more quickly than he does so it is much easier when we take turns.
I guess this is what's happening to my gf now.. but when she feels my cum in her mouth, she just explode in her climax, is kind a trigger
Quote by Dani
The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.
The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.
With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.
Yeah, this exactly. Same with doing two men, it's a great dirty idea to service two men at once (felt really dirty! yum), but, I'd much rather focus on one "thing/man" at a time.
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Mmmmmmm...... 
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What's the rush? Take turns
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Not a distraction at all,when comfortable you can take your time enjoy yourself
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Quote by GeorgiaGirl21
I like 69, but it's just foreplay. Good warm-up to more serious lovemaking!
totally agree I always considered it great foreplay. instead of taking turns we just go for mutual oral to turn each other on until we advance to other stuff. never considered getting off on it