On story sites that have categories people shouldn't read a type of story that they are certain not to like because they don't like that particular kind of story. If someone hates the thought of adultery I can't imagine why they would read a story about it. Some people just like to gripe, of course, and some people just want to be negative, but there is also a great double standard about women enjoying sex under any circumstances, but especially if they're cheating on their husbands. Stories that show women as free spirits get a lot of negative feedback in general because they don't fit with some people's ideal. There are a lot of people who think women shouldn't be enjoying sex and are annoyed and angered by the fact that they do.
And some people are just assholes.
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Issues with adultery stories.
I thought I'd share another one I just got. These are actually becoming quite humorous.
"This is unbelivably bad. No one would put up with that from any girlfriend. He should have flogged her ass raw, stuck a stick of dynamite up there and lit it. If you are going to write something make it at least semi believeable."
"This is unbelivably bad. No one would put up with that from any girlfriend. He should have flogged her ass raw, stuck a stick of dynamite up there and lit it. If you are going to write something make it at least semi believeable."
I have found on another "well known" site, anonymous comments were allowed for many years. And those often tended to be the worst type, and voted down many quality stories. I never understood why a site would allow anonymous anything when there are story tags and a disclaimer before the first lines of a story about the content.
Now, if I read a story I disliked I am not going to continue to read on and vote it poorly. That is just idiotic.
Now, if I read a story I disliked I am not going to continue to read on and vote it poorly. That is just idiotic.
I've actually started posting disclaimers at the beginning of my stories. But...they seem to attract the malcontents even more. I think they get pleasure out of getting angry, which is why they keep reading those types of stories.
My new story "8 Days" which I posted on that "other site" has caused a massive influx of negative comments. and that story doesn't even technically have any adultery in it. Here's one of my favorites.
And this story didn't even have cheating in it! It was about an engaged couple deciding to see other people before they get married. I even got a few personal threats of violence.
It's kind of watching a horror movie and saying "the movie sucks because people get killed in it!"
My new story "8 Days" which I posted on that "other site" has caused a massive influx of negative comments. and that story doesn't even technically have any adultery in it. Here's one of my favorites.
You can't have a "good" story about a cheating, disrespecting whore no matter how its written, thats the story, we like it or we don't. We don't, are you a good writer, I think you can be, do I like your stories? Fuck no, they don't turn me on, I don't like the people in them. Sorry, thats just the way it is, if cheating lying sluts turn you on, than I hope you get one and fall in love, you deserve it. Good luck.
And this story didn't even have cheating in it! It was about an engaged couple deciding to see other people before they get married. I even got a few personal threats of violence.
It's kind of watching a horror movie and saying "the movie sucks because people get killed in it!"
Different genres attract different readers and different critics. My stories seem to flush out a mix of men who lust for their daughters or a daughter figure or creepy guys who want to share their purportedly real life personal accounts of . Creepy? Heck yeah and that's one reason I stopped writing those stories. I've also written stories about hubby and I, which attract a tamer but nicer group of "relationship romantics." And then there was the one story I wrote about an extra-marital encounter which brought out pervy men who wanted me and angry men who hated me - both of whom I suspect are cut from the same cloth. My attitude? If you don't like it then don't read it; otherwise leave me alone.
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Quote by DamonX
I've actually started posting disclaimers at the beginning of my stories. But...they seem to attract the malcontents even more. I think they get pleasure out of getting angry, which is why they keep reading those types of stories.
My new story "8 Days" which I posted on that "other site" has caused a massive influx of negative comments. and that story doesn't even technically have any adultery in it. Here's one of my favorites.
You can't have a "good" story about a cheating, disrespecting whore no matter how its written, thats the story, we like it or we don't. We don't, are you a good writer, I think you can be, do I like your stories? Fuck no, they don't turn me on, I don't like the people in them. Sorry, thats just the way it is, if cheating lying sluts turn you on, than I hope you get one and fall in love, you deserve it. Good luck.
This person obviously gets something out of your stories, otherwise he/she would've stopped reading after the first one. The fact that they've continued to read on even when they claim to not like your work says a lot about the type of person they are.
They've either been cheated on in the past or the idea of it turns them on.
Personally me adultery not a subject matter that runs me on I actually find it a turn off big time but hey that's just me as others have said to each their own. It's really simple if you don't like the subject matter just don't read about it plain and simple. Why waist your time and the authors time to write a negative comment in the first place just plain stupid.
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It's really simple if you don't like the subject matter just don't read about it plain and simple. Why waist your time and the authors time to write a negative comment in the first place just plain stupid.
it's true. If they don't like it, they won't give time to read it, and if they haven't read it how could they comment? Well seems like you've got their interest that made them give time to read on your story and eventually got carried away with the story that made them get angry or anything. Your stories are good that it could stimulate anger on them or whatever there is.
Yeah, its kind of funny. I have people that write and say "I hate every one of your stories!"
I'm like...and you still haven't stopped reading after the first 49 I wrote??
I've been slowly trying to infiltrate the minds of these people, but its been a difficult task. There seems to be a deep-seeded misogynism involved with most of them. They seem to think that the male character should always act with hatred and violence against any female character that shows any sexuality. I actually wrote a story about a woman who found out her husband had cheated on her, then tied him up and made him watch while she fucked another man. Again, all the negative comments were towards the woman even though she was the one getting revenge.
It seems its not so much "cheating" that angers them. Its cheating women. As well as swingers, or men that enjoy watching their wives/ girlfriends. They call them 'wimps' although that doesn't really make sense to me.
I'm like...and you still haven't stopped reading after the first 49 I wrote??
I've been slowly trying to infiltrate the minds of these people, but its been a difficult task. There seems to be a deep-seeded misogynism involved with most of them. They seem to think that the male character should always act with hatred and violence against any female character that shows any sexuality. I actually wrote a story about a woman who found out her husband had cheated on her, then tied him up and made him watch while she fucked another man. Again, all the negative comments were towards the woman even though she was the one getting revenge.
It seems its not so much "cheating" that angers them. Its cheating women. As well as swingers, or men that enjoy watching their wives/ girlfriends. They call them 'wimps' although that doesn't really make sense to me.
Quote by DamonX
They seem to think that the male character should always act with hatred and violence against any female character that shows any sexuality. I actually wrote a story about a woman who found out her husband had cheated on her, then tied him up and made him watch while she fucked another man. Again, all the negative comments were towards the woman even though she was the one getting revenge.
well, I think it's human nature lol
some are good on making bad comments towards the work of others, all they could see is the bad side. they refuse to see what was really have to be seen.
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seems its not so much "cheating" that angers them. Its cheating women. As well as swingers, or men that enjoy watching their wives/ girlfriends. They call them 'wimps' although that doesn't really make sense to me.
about cheating women, some can't accept the fact that women can also cheat and that fact angers them. they call it double standard I think. I could always hear a lot say "It's okay for a guy to cheat on his wife or gf but a wife or a gf that would cheat on his husband or bf is unacceptable."
hmm... they should have to accept the fact that everybody is equal
even in cheating lol 
Wild at Heart
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People have to bitch about something *sigh* i would just try to ignore what they say...
This is the way I feel too. I haven't gotten any negative feedback on this site, i'm new, but on other sites I have. Most of my stories involve cheating but people dont seem to mind that; Its mainly the fact that the main sexual act in my stories is anal. People tend to say that it is gross and that I am gay for liking anal with a woman. They are clearly in the anal category and its tagged anal but they go ahead and read it anyway then bitch about how gross and gay anal is.
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People have to bitch about something *sigh* i would just try to ignore what they say...
This is the way I feel too. I haven't gotten any negative feedback on this site, i'm new, but on other sites I have. Most of my stories involve cheating but people dont seem to mind that; Its mainly the fact that the main sexual act in my stories is anal. People tend to say that it is gross and that I am gay for liking anal with a woman. They are clearly in the anal category and its tagged anal but they go ahead and read it anyway then bitch about how gross and gay anal is.
Really? Wow. That surprises me because pretty much all my stories have anal. I don't think I've ever had someone complain about that. What sites are you posting on?
I have had people call me "gay" if the story had any swinging or wife sharing in it.
Wild at Heart
Quote by DamonXQuote by Magical_felixQuote by sassycheergirl
People have to bitch about something *sigh* i would just try to ignore what they say...
This is the way I feel too. I haven't gotten any negative feedback on this site, i'm new, but on other sites I have. Most of my stories involve cheating but people dont seem to mind that; Its mainly the fact that the main sexual act in my stories is anal. People tend to say that it is gross and that I am gay for liking anal with a woman. They are clearly in the anal category and its tagged anal but they go ahead and read it anyway then bitch about how gross and gay anal is.
Really? Wow. That surprises me because pretty much all my stories have anal. I don't think I've ever had someone complain about that. What sites are you posting on?
I have had people call me "gay" if the story had any swinging or wife sharing in it.
I posted on ###########. My stories on lit are full of mistakes and are even worse than they are now on that site. This site is more strict and I am glad they are. It forces me to improve my "writing" before posting. So my stories on Lush are like special editions of my ########### ones LOL. I also hope to write some new ones to post just here.
I posted on ##########. My stories on lit are full of mistakes and are even worse than they are now on that site. This site is more strict and I am glad they are. It forces me to improve my "writing" before posting. So my stories on Lush are like special editions of my ############ ones LOL. I also hope to write some new ones to post just here.
Yeah, I know what you mean. When I first joined this site, I cut and pasted my older stories from ######### and they all got rejected because of spelling.
########## is full of wierdos. You get thousands of views, but you also get a ton of readers who get pleasure out of sending anonymous insults. Do you post in the anal category? You can't win on that site though. Whatever you write, you're going to piss someone off.
You can't have a "good" story about a cheating, disrespecting whore no matter how its written ...
Peyton Place. 1957 and over a year on the best seller list. It sold 60,000 copies the first week. Topics include infidelity, , and murder and has become the breeding ground for countless imitations in daytime soaps and prime time addictions. (Desperate housewives.)
This quoted comment is so self indulgently ignorant that it is laughable.
Wild at Heart
Quote by DamonX
I posted on #########. My stories on lit are full of mistakes and are even worse than they are now on that site. This site is more strict and I am glad they are. It forces me to improve my "writing" before posting. So my stories on Lush are like special editions of my ######### ones LOL. I also hope to write some new ones to post just here.
Yeah, I know what you mean. When I first joined this site, I cut and pasted my older stories from ######### and they all got rejected because of spelling.
######### is full of wierdos. You get thousands of views, but you also get a ton of readers who get pleasure out of sending anonymous insults. Do you post in the anal category? You can't win on that site though. Whatever you write, you're going to piss someone off.
Yes, I did post in the anal category. I know what you mean about the lit members. I'd get emails encouraging me to write more chapters and then I'd get some telling me to "just fuck off already."
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Yes, I did post in the anal category. I know what you mean about the lit members. I'd get emails encouraging me to write more chapters and then I'd get some telling me to "just fuck off already."
Yep. Although, I've found that that the more popular the story is, the more negative feedback you'll get as well. So you can take it as a good sign if people on there send you negative feedback. If a story really sucks, nobody pays attention to it at all. Check out #########.com for a quality site with less malcontents if you want to get some real feedback on your stories.
ADMIN: unwise to promote a competing website.
Wild at Heart
I'll check that one out. most of my stories on lit averaged about 30,000 views and a couple in the 60,000 range. Now that I think about it I'm surprised I didn't get more negative feedback
I think I got off topic a bit. back to adultery.
I think I got off topic a bit. back to adultery.
Constant Gardener
Quote by DamonX
Check out xxxx.com for a quality site with less malcontents if you want to get some real feedback on your stories.
Hey man...can ya send him, or...anyone else - an email with our competitors URL and praise for the other sites, in it?
Both of you fellows are kind of tramping mud and tossing cigarette butts in on the Lush carpeting with this recent conversation...of other erotic websites.
Thanks
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Wild at Heart
Sorry dude, I think I better keep my mouth shut for a while.
Edit- Now I double posted, F me.
Edit- Now I double posted, F me.
Constant Gardener
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Sorry dude, I think I better keep my mouth shut for a while.
Edit- Now I double posted, F me.
This one's kinda
- though! The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Quote by WellMadeMaleQuote by DamonX
Check out xxxx.com for a quality site with less malcontents if you want to get some real feedback on your stories.
Hey man...can ya send him, or...anyone else - an email with our competitors URL and praise for the other sites, in it?
Both of you fellows are kind of tramping mud and tossing cigarette butts in on the Lush carpeting with this recent conversation...of other erotic websites.
Thanks
I apologize. I actually never thought of the other sites as "competitors". I will definately refrain from actually saying the name of the lower quality sites if you wish.
Matriarch
A warning to DamonX and Magical_Felix - you might want to read our forum posting guidelines before mentioning any more story sites: http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst6_Forum-Posting-Guide.aspx
At least you were both knocking the former site in question, so that's one saving grace
Linking to or promoting competiting story sites anywhere on Lush is disallowed, and may result in your account being banned.
At least you were both knocking the former site in question, so that's one saving grace
Matriarch
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This quoted comment is so self indulgently ignorant that it is laughable.
Well said.
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This quoted comment is so self indulgently ignorant that it is laughable.
My comment ( concerning malcontents) was made in comparison to L******.com, not this site. I would ask about the negative impact of such a statement, but I've learned that asking questions is obviously not a good idea. Consider the subject dropped.
Matriarch
Quote by DamonX
My comment ( concerning malcontents) was made in comparison to L******.com, not this site. I would ask about the negative impact of such a statement, but I've learned that asking questions is obviously not a good idea. Consider the subject dropped.
Thanks for making that clear Damon, I see where you are coming from now.
Quote by NobeUddyYou can't have a "good" story about a cheating, disrespecting whore no matter how its written ...
Peyton Place. 1957 and over a year on the best seller list. It sold 60,000 copies the first week. Topics include infidelity, , and murder and has become the breeding ground for countless imitations in daytime soaps and prime time addictions. (Desperate housewives.)
This quoted comment is so self indulgently ignorant that it is laughable.
So back to the actual topic...
I've made the argument that most stories require an antagonist of some sort, but most of the trolls don't seem to agree with that. They tend to object to any antagonistic character of any kind. I tend to like books or movies where the main character is "evil" or "bad" because I find it more interesting. Patrick Bates, Hannibal Lector, or even "Alfie" are good examples of characters that possess traits that are perceived as "undesirable". Makes for a good read I think.