Do any of your friends or family know you write erotica

Hi, I started writing porn stories about 7 years ago and nobody has a clue. It fulfils my two kinks - fucking very old ladies and piss play.  I also had a thing for girdles and corsets and hairy cunts.

Most of my friends and family know I write erotica.

None of my family knows. I’m not even sure how to bring it up since I was considered probably a prude 10 yrs ago lmao! 

My friends know because I've told several people about the site. I don't know if they have to come Lush or not. I don't think anyone in my family knows. It's never come up, but I would tell them if asked about it. I'm a pretty open person so it doesn't affect me either way.

No unfortunately no one knows I write on Lush. I say unfortunately because I'd like one friend to know and I'd like the wife to know too, but it's been a long time now.

I have written and shared erotica with my wife before, so she knows I can write this stuff, but that was before I found Lush. When I started publishing I hid the fact that I did it and I don't know why.

So this is my pleasure and it has allowed me to spread my wings in different forms of erotica that I wouldn't have ordinarily done. 

My husband knows I write erotic stories, but shows no interest in reading them or asking anything about them. If he asked, I would show him my Word copies, and not Lush. He doesn't know who I chat to or what we chat about.

My wife knows, and I tell her the latest Forum gossip or funny story, but that’s it. She doesn’t much care to read the stories, but she loves it when I come back to bed after writing a sex scene, and find her swollen clit with my tongue or shoot a huge load on her tits, then lick her wet nipples and kiss her hungry mouth. Many of my stories are beyond bi-curious and include bisexual blowjobs with cum swapping, and gleeful bi-guys ass fucking each other with help from a loving wife or girlfriend. So no, I don’t need the guys at work waiting for my next installment. 

My wife found my writings on another site 20 years ago and nearly left me over it. She didn't trust me after that. I don't think she fully trusts me today, all these years later. The only person that knows I write, is my sister. My sister does not know about my erotica, she does know about the romance novel I am writing.

I used to write a lot but gave it up eight years ago. Just getting started again.

Back then I had a friend that used to do my grammatical and continuity editing for me. She obviously knew I write and read all my work. She didn't however know my pseudo name, nor where I published.

A few other friends have known about it over the years. The occasional one might get one of my unpublished warm-up shorts if they really wanted to read my work.

If my employers connected me to this type of thing, it could jeopardize advancement in my career, so I tend to keep it fairly low profile. If I was in a career that it wouldn't matter, I wouldn't care who knew about it.

Yes they all know

My best friend knows and has read some of my softish ones.

My first ex husband found my stories on my laptop around the divorce and tried to use them against me in child arrangement. It was nasty, stopped me writing for years.

My now-ex second husband knew too. He was very supportive first then lost interest - along with a rest of me, well... Life.

mm, I was forced to submit, sorry, I meant admit! Harriet-Jacqui xx

My friends know (all three of them), but my family doesn't. Given that my family believes that a shared bloodline is sufficient reason to call themselves "family", that works for me.

My family doesn't care to acknowledge my existence unless there's a profit to be made.

'Nuff said.

The novel I have been writing, VY: A Beginning And An End, is actually one of a few primary reasons why I will never speak to my immediate family members ever again. While working as a patient transporter for a company my older sister was a director for, I started writing this novel. Initially there was absolutely no mature content in any way in the story, and one of the staff asked to read what I was writing privately during my down time, which was considered fine. She like it, shared it with my supervisor who also said he was interested to see more. I told them they'd have to wait till it is finished and read it on their own outside of work at a later point, which they said was fine. Then two weeks later, one of the other employees working as a receptionist came in while I was not at my desk and because she didn't like me and was racist as well as sexist, decided to rifle through what was obviously my personal belongings (moving my locked cell phone of a stack of papers, moving an unused legal pad off and proceeding to read my story content which I was intentionally keeping private as it was not appropriate to be distributed at work. Seeing the content, she apparently made photocopies, and proceeded to distribute the copies to all offices in the building (all covered by brand new security cameras). Then she made a sexual harrassment complaint against me, using the distributed story as evidence.

My sister was one of the executive staff to completely ignore the presence of cameras recording the claimed offense, went along with the decision to fire me without me having any opportunity to defend myself in the matter and then proceeded to violate corporate policy by going to our parents, telling them I was "making a porno at work" as my dad put it.

So yeah, I get the embarrassment involved in writing erotic stories, but at this point, I don't care about what my family says. People will be a-holes and judgmental and cruel. That's life.

My wife and my therapist knows.

My wife has read my work.

I will die before I let my therapist get her hands on it.

No

My wife, many of my friends, and a few of my family know. I'm proud of my erotica.

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My wife, many of my friends, and a few of my family know. I'm proud of my erotica.

You should be

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My wife, many of my friends, and a few of my family know. I'm proud of my erotica.

You should be

Thank you, Boom Boom. (Flick.)

I wonder why we hide it from our family and friends. It's not that I am ashamed. In fact, I too am proud of my writing. But for 40 years I was a much different person I guess, and I am not sure they would understand this new, free spirited me. (Esp the staunch Catholic ones...hehe)

My wife knows (in fact, she found this site before me and encouraged me to share my stuff here) and encourages me. I’m torn about sharing this with some of my writer friends, though. On the one hand, I write fantasies of my wife that I’m more comfortable sharing with strangers than with friends who might not look at me (or her) the same. On the other, I have a group of writer friends who I’ve shared work with for 30+ years, so it feels strange to keep this from them. For now, privacy is winning over pride…

I have no family and my friends don’t know because I don’t.

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My wife knows (in fact, she found this site before me and encouraged me to share my stuff here) and encourages me. I’m torn about sharing this with some of my writer friends, though. On the one hand, I write fantasies of my wife that I’m more comfortable sharing with strangers than with friends who might not look at me (or her) the same. On the other, I have a group of writer friends who I’ve shared work with for 30+ years, so it feels strange to keep this from them. For now, privacy is winning over pride…

I was in a similar situation, writing erotica but afraid to show it to my writer friends. When I did, they loved it, and saw it as just another genre, nothing to be embarrassed about or hide. So, I'd suggest showing your erotica to a writer friend or two who you trust. The trust bit is key. But I was glad I did.

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My wife knows (in fact, she found this site before me and encouraged me to share my stuff here) and encourages me. I’m torn about sharing this with some of my writer friends, though. On the one hand, I write fantasies of my wife that I’m more comfortable sharing with strangers than with friends who might not look at me (or her) the same. On the other, I have a group of writer friends who I’ve shared work with for 30+ years, so it feels strange to keep this from them. For now, privacy is winning over pride…

I was in a similar situation, writing erotica but afraid to show it to my writer friends. When I did, they loved it, and saw it as just another genre, nothing to be embarrassed about or hide. So, I'd suggest showing your erotica to a writer friend or two who you trust. The trust bit is key. But I was glad I did.

Ensorceled, if I wrote HALF as well as you, I’d be telling EVERYONE!!!

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My wife knows (in fact, she found this site before me and encouraged me to share my stuff here) and encourages me. I’m torn about sharing this with some of my writer friends, though. On the one hand, I write fantasies of my wife that I’m more comfortable sharing with strangers than with friends who might not look at me (or her) the same. On the other, I have a group of writer friends who I’ve shared work with for 30+ years, so it feels strange to keep this from them. For now, privacy is winning over pride…

I was in a similar situation, writing erotica but afraid to show it to my writer friends. When I did, they loved it, and saw it as just another genre, nothing to be embarrassed about or hide. So, I'd suggest showing your erotica to a writer friend or two who you trust. The trust bit is key. But I was glad I did.

Ensorceled, if I wrote HALF as well as you, I’d be telling EVERYONE!!!

That's very kind of you to say. Thank you! I appreciate your extremely generous response to Comet Q as well.

Yes, my gf and all my FWB are aware and help occasionally. I have occasionally used one of their experiences to create a story.

Only Miss Pixel. I don't have any RL friends and have as little to do with my family as possible, which suits all concerned.

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Only Miss Pixel. I don't have any RL friends and have as little to do with my family as possible, which suits all concerned.

Happily, Miss Pixel calls my cat, Mimi Rose Howard, and tells her all about your fine literary efforts.

My wife and her niece do but really, that’s it.

The writing bug bite me in high school when I was on the school newspaper and yearbook staff. I ended up working in Sales & Marketing for 20yrs and wrote a lot of my firm's form letters for sales, brochures, and eventually our website content. I've always been a reader of erotica but it wasn't until a few months ago that I started writing. Two women who I've hooked up with recently know that I write stories, but they don't know my username. I would often read them other stories to get us hot and horny.