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Sometimes its good not to directly mention them, but allude to them. All depends on what the intent is with the story. I personally dislike words like cock, pussy, cunt, etc. I find them derogatory and used as a means for the author to be lazy. Now, it cannot take away from the quality of an author as a whole, but it can slightly mar the quality of the story. But that's my opinion, not a solid fact.


I was going to say that 'no one would agree with me, but I hate reading any of those words' and then I saw this. I agree with you. This is the first erotica-only website I've ever been on. In all my other writing communities, when I read erotica they never name it.

I pushed inside her works just as well (better in my mind), than I put my dick/cock in her.

Here, I'll be getting into a story and then have hold back laughter after reading cock, cunt, fucked, or the the dreaded 'cum'. The first three won't kill the story for me, but it does water down the arousal factor.


What about "throbbing manhood?" Or "pulsing member"? Probably still too dirty for you huh? I think you need to stick to cheesy romance novels with pics of Fabio on the cover, wearing a white, flowing shirt and tearing with unbridled passion at the bodice of his female suitor....

People use dirty words (now I feel like a kindergarten teacher) in sex stories because they evoke feelings of arousal in themselves and in most readers. Show me a guy or girl that doesn't like to have the words "fuck me" whispered into his ear during sex, and you can bet their are one boring, vanilla lay. Perhaps you should go back to diddling yourself to Twilight posters and fantasies of being swept up by prince charming..... Oops. Sorry. I didn't mean to use such crude language there. I should have said "touching yourself down there". My apologies.


The only romance novel I've ever read also had me laughing through it. Twilight had me shaking my head in wonder at how anyone could read such crap. I never tried that again and I think Fabio is so ugly. I guess I prefer things, including the characters in books I read, to be more realistic.

In my experience with both guys and girls none of them have ever said 'fuck me' and I would never say that. I guess none of us needed the ego boost and would prefer to concentrate on the sex. Obviously there is the direction words, harder, faster, like that.

But I've always enjoyed sex better when I was speechless.

They could try to ask me questions, but they are already there before I can say 'harder', 'faster', or 'more'. And any attempt to answer their questions would result in gargled words, because the simple thought process of 'yes' was too much for my addled brain to make. Of course there will be moaning, thrusting, clenching, groaning, arching and the like, but if he asks me a question and I still have the ability to answer it, then he could be doing a better job.

And I'm never going to have sex with you so I guess I really doesn't matter if you think I'd be a 'vanilla lay'.
mmmmm cock, or shaft, or other things...
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The only romance novel I've ever read also had me laughing through it. Twilight had me shaking my head in wonder at how anyone could read such crap. I never tried that again and I think Fabio is so ugly. I guess I prefer things, including the characters in books I read, to be more realistic.


Realistic? Didn't you just say in another thread that you were mainly a fan of Harry Potter and Disney romances?

Also... dirty talk isn't meant as a Q&A.


Anyway... back to the original question, I like using cock, shaft, sometimes dick depending on the character and the story style. Unless one is writing in the 'love stories' category, a sex scene needs real and raw verbiage in order to give the right energy and intensity to a memorable sex scene. Erotica and sexuality is about releasing inhibitions so I can't imagine why a writer would want to be inhibited with the words they use.
I prefer cock. Wait, that didn't come out right. I think using cock is better. Wait, dammit.

Generally speaking, I think cock works better when writing a story. Dick has a negative aspect to it. It's become more of an insult word than a descriptive of the male anatomy. Like Spicolli to Mr. Hand in Fast Times at Ridgemont High.... "You dick!" But like any word, it's how you use it that matters. Overuse of cock or dick or pussy or cunt can ruin a story.



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Sometimes its good not to directly mention them, but allude to them. All depends on what the intent is with the story. I personally dislike words like cock, pussy, cunt, etc. I find them derogatory and used as a means for the author to be lazy. Now, it cannot take away from the quality of an author as a whole, but it can slightly mar the quality of the story. But that's my opinion, not a solid fact.


I was going to say that 'no one would agree with me, but I hate reading any of those words' and then I saw this. I agree with you. This is the first erotica-only website I've ever been on. In all my other writing communities, when I read erotica they never name it.

I pushed inside her works just as well (better in my mind), than I put my dick/cock in her.

Here, I'll be getting into a story and then have hold back laughter after reading cock, cunt, fucked, or the the dreaded 'cum'. The first three won't kill the story for me, but it does water down the arousal factor.


Sometimes! Sometimes it's a good thing to not mention things directly. It's all about the story you're writing. If you're penning a love story or some virginal 18 year old couple's first time.. then they may not be talking filthy. But if you're writing a story about some woman catching her male roommate wearing her panties, I think some more crude words are in order.

It is called erotica for a reason. Romance novels are called Romance because of what they are. Write a couple stories on Lush. Tag one with "Love Story" and the other with "DP, threesome, facial" or something like that and see which gets read more.

If you laugh while reading stories with cock, cunt, fucked, or cum then maybe you need to choose your reading material a little better. Seems a bit naive to me to laugh at someone else's hard work.



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Definitely Cock!
Yeah, I love cock too!! Hahahahah
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I prefer cock.


It's about time you admitted that Mister!



As long as it isn't that little Vienna sausage that you're packing. Paging Dr. 90210.. emergency penis enlargement!



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Both at the same time would be lovely ;) Cock would be my preference, but a bitta dick isn't bad either :P
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I prefer cock


It's about time you admitted that Mister!



As long as it isn't that little Vienna sausage that you're packing. Paging Dr. 90210.. emergency penis enlargement!


Now now Mister, I am not sure what your beef is with me but you do have to admit that you broadcasted in the forums you like cock...No need to try to bring my manhood into question here.
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Come to think of it Mister you ARE pretty manly, isn't that you on the bike?



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I prefer cock.


It's about time you admitted that Mister!



As long as it isn't that little Vienna sausage that you're packing. Paging Dr. 90210.. emergency penis enlargement!


hmm... i must have met Dude after the operation than. three months later and i'm still walking funny!

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Come to think of it Mister you ARE pretty manly, isn't that you on the bike?



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The only romance novel I've ever read also had me laughing through it. Twilight had me shaking my head in wonder at how anyone could read such crap. I never tried that again and I think Fabio is so ugly. I guess I prefer things, including the characters in books I read, to be more realistic.


Realistic? Didn't you just say in another thread that you were mainly a fan of Harry Potter and Disney romances?

Also... dirty talk isn't meant as a Q&A.


Anyway... back to the original question, I like using cock, shaft, sometimes dick depending on the character and the story style. Unless one is writing in the 'love stories' category, a sex scene needs real and raw verbiage in order to give the right energy and intensity to a memorable sex scene. Erotica and sexuality is about releasing inhibitions so I can't imagine why a writer would want to be inhibited with the words they use.


Way to take something out of context. I was calling JK Rowling an overrated author, and said over ten years ago I found Disney romances cute.
cock for sure, it just reads meatier and more apetitising
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I agree, cock does sound more filling
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Cock & Pussy = Yes
Dick & Cunt = No
No real difference - both are descriptive of the same item. Probably reflects on your up-bringing as to which you use.
Hmm, there are other options..

"My anaconda don't want none unless you got buns, hon" comes to mind, as do 'meat', 'manhood', 'object of worship', pussy punisher, dong, rod...you really can go on for hours if you think a bit.

Really, it all depends on the tone and mood of the story, or even the particular scene.
Cock...I also like just simply saying penis...or even getting esoteric with words like phallus instead of cock and Priapic instead of hard......lol.

there are LOTS of names for vaginas...and I like them (almost) all....except the really icky misogynistic ones.
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How about being sandwiched with a dick on one end and a cock on the other? LOL