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Sometimes its good not to directly mention them, but allude to them. All depends on what the intent is with the story. I personally dislike words like cock, pussy, cunt, etc. I find them derogatory and used as a means for the author to be lazy. Now, it cannot take away from the quality of an author as a whole, but it can slightly mar the quality of the story. But that's my opinion, not a solid fact.
I was going to say that 'no one would agree with me, but I hate reading any of those words' and then I saw this. I agree with you. This is the first erotica-only website I've ever been on. In all my other writing communities, when I read erotica they never name it.
I pushed inside her works just as well (better in my mind), than I put my dick/cock in her.
Here, I'll be getting into a story and then have hold back laughter after reading cock, cunt, fucked, or the the dreaded 'cum'. The first three won't kill the story for me, but it does water down the arousal factor.
What about "throbbing manhood?" Or "pulsing member"? Probably still too dirty for you huh? I think you need to stick to cheesy romance novels with pics of Fabio on the cover, wearing a white, flowing shirt and tearing with unbridled passion at the bodice of his female suitor....
People use dirty words (now I feel like a kindergarten teacher) in sex stories because they evoke feelings of arousal in themselves and in most readers. Show me a guy or girl that doesn't like to have the words "fuck me" whispered into his ear during sex, and you can bet their are one boring, vanilla lay. Perhaps you should go back to diddling yourself to Twilight posters and fantasies of being swept up by prince charming..... Oops. Sorry. I didn't mean to use such crude language there. I should have said "touching yourself down there". My apologies.
The only romance novel I've ever read also had me laughing through it. Twilight had me shaking my head in wonder at how anyone could read such crap. I never tried that again and I think Fabio is so ugly. I guess I prefer things, including the characters in books I read, to be more realistic.
In my experience with both guys and girls none of them have ever said 'fuck me' and I would never say that. I guess none of us needed the ego boost and would prefer to concentrate on the sex. Obviously there is the direction words, harder, faster, like that.
But I've always enjoyed sex better when I was speechless.
They could try to ask me questions, but they are already there before I can say 'harder', 'faster', or 'more'. And any attempt to answer their questions would result in gargled words, because the simple thought process of 'yes' was too much for my addled brain to make. Of course there will be moaning, thrusting, clenching, groaning, arching and the like, but if he asks me a question and I still have the ability to answer it, then he could be doing a better job.
And I'm never going to have sex with you so I guess I really doesn't matter if you think I'd be a 'vanilla lay'.