Here is a little background:
Been married to my wife for 21 years, met in high school, to my knowledge we have only be with each other. I have no reason to believe others. It's been pretty normal as far as sex goes. Meeting vanilla; yes there is oral on both sides and she will only allow me to fuck her in her pussy, no anal. She really had been closed off to any experimenting, you almost say she was very prudish about sex.
So about a year ago she has told me during a game of truth or dare that we were playing that she had toyed with the idea of a threesome MFF. Nothing much on the topic since then other than snide comments from me about her having a gf. So within the last two weeks she really has started to heat things up out of no where.
She started giving me a blow job in the kitchen, when the **Edited for content.** were in the living room, we even fucked in the kitchen with the **Edited for content.** in the living room. She has given me a blowjob while I was driving and let me pull her shirt up in the car while we parked at a local college parking lot and let me lick on her tits. We have been talking kinky stuff while fucking about a woman joining us and recently suggested that she had a bf and he joined us and that while she was fucking him she was sucking me off and then we switched. She had her dildo out and was licking it while I fucked her and she brought it to my lips and pushed it in, it's just a dildo and it tasted good as she just had it in her pussy so I sucked on it. She got incredibly hot.
So as all this has happened she recently went to an adult toy party. This is all completely out of her character and I asked her why the sudden change and if she had been reading stuff or talking to someone. She said no that she just didn't want things to get stale and wanted me to keep thinking that "damn I'm lucky she is my wife".
So my question(s) are:
Does it sound like to you all that she is talking to someone else?
Do you think she possibly is seeing someone else which is why her sex drive and experimentation have increased?
And what do I make of her putting her dildo in my mouth and her excitement over that.
I'm not sure what to think, but I am enjoying her new found excitement and experimentation thought process. Thoughts?
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Here is a little background:
Been married to my wife for 21 years, met in high school, to my knowledge we have only be with each other. I have no reason to believe others. It's been pretty normal as far as sex goes. Meeting vanilla; yes there is oral on both sides and she will only allow me to fuck her in her pussy, no anal. She really had been closed off to any experimenting, you almost say she was very prudish about sex.
So about a year ago she has told me during a game of truth or dare that we were playing that she had toyed with the idea of a threesome MFF. Nothing much on the topic since then other than snide comments from me about her having a gf. So within the last two weeks she really has started to heat things up out of no where.
She started giving me a blow job in the kitchen, when the **Edited for content.** were in the living room, we even fucked in the kitchen with the **Edited for content.** in the living room. She has given me a blowjob while I was driving and let me pull her shirt up in the car while we parked at a local college parking lot and let me lick on her tits. We have been talking kinky stuff while fucking about a woman joining us and recently suggested that she had a bf and he joined us and that while she was fucking him she was sucking me off and then we switched. She had her dildo out and was licking it while I fucked her and she brought it to my lips and pushed it in, it's just a dildo and it tasted good as she just had it in her pussy so I sucked on it. She got incredibly hot.
So as all this has happened she recently went to an adult toy party. This is all completely out of her character and I asked her why the sudden change and if she had been reading stuff or talking to someone. She said no that she just didn't want things to get stale and wanted me to keep thinking that "damn I'm lucky she is my wife".
So my question(s) are:
Does it sound like to you all that she is talking to someone else?
Do you think she possibly is seeing someone else which is why her sex drive and experimentation have increased?
And what do I make of her putting her dildo in my mouth and her excitement over that.
I'm not sure what to think, but I am enjoying her new found excitement and experimentation thought process. Thoughts?
What your wife is experiencing is quite common in most women. The best way it can be defined is a 'sexual awakening', actually. I'm not sure how old your wife is, but I'm sure it coincides with her age. Lots of women peek sexually in their late 30s to early 40s. As a result, she's hornier than ever and more sexually adventurous than ever. Consider it a sexual mid-life crisis of sorts. Men buy sports cars and Harleys, women get horny.
As for your questions, here goes:
1. She could be talking to someone else. But if she is, it's most likely a friend or two that tells about all of their sexual adventures and misadventures (we all have at least one of this type of friend). It's probably got her wheels churning and her interest piqued, which is fueling her sex drive even more.
2. It's unlikely that she's seeing someone else. That's usually accompanied with distance and detachment from you as well as lost interest in sex with you. But her sexual interest in YOU is increasing, and she wants to try all of these things with YOU. It seems like she wants you included in all of her sexual adventures. I'd be super shocked if she were seeing someone else.
3. She likes seeing you with her dildo in your mouth. The fact that it was previously in her pussy was probably what motivated the act, and not just the act of putting a dildo in your mouth in and of itself. It doesn't indicate that she's ready to strap on dildo and harness, bend you over, and hump you for dear life or anything like that. It just means she's open and wants you to experiment with her. Expect more surprises like this. And if there's anything you're open to and would like to try (like anal play, for example), run it by her. She may be open to it as well.
Yours truly,
~Olivia
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Looks like an OTK spanking would be next for her. She will love it and respect you more.
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What your wife is experiencing is quite common in most women. The best way it can be defined is a 'sexual awakening', actually. I'm not sure how old your wife is, but I'm sure it coincides with her age. Lots of women peek sexually in their late 30s to early 40s. As a result, she's hornier than ever and more sexually adventurous than ever. Consider it a sexual mid-life crisis of sorts. Men buy sports cars and Harleys, women get horny.
As for your questions, here goes:
1. She could be talking to someone else. But if she is, it's most likely a friend or two that tells about all of their sexual adventures and misadventures (we all have at least one of this type of friend). It's probably got her wheels churning and her interest piqued, which is fueling her sex drive even more.
2. It's unlikely that she's seeing someone else. That's usually accompanied with distance and detachment from you as well as lost interest in sex with you. But her sexual interest in YOU is increasing, and she wants to try all of these things with YOU. It seems like she wants you included in all of her sexual adventures. I'd be super shocked if she were seeing someone else.
3. She likes seeing you with her dildo in your mouth. The fact that it was previously in her pussy was probably what motivated the act, and not just the act of putting a dildo in your mouth in and of itself. It doesn't indicate that she's ready to strap on dildo and harness, bend you over, and hump you for dear life or anything like that. It just means she's open and wants you to experiment with her. Expect more surprises like this. And if there's anything you're open to and would like to try (like anal play, for example), run it by her. She may be open to it as well.
Yours truly,
~Olivia
Wow it sounds like Pat is One Lucky Dude in for some Hottt Adventures!! I love your advice you sound Very Knowledgable
So an update.....things have pretty much returned to the once a week or every two weeks. So it seem as though the time in July 2014 was just something she was going through, whether that was with someone else or by talking to someone I do not know. What I do know it was fun and exciting but not sure what caused this behavior during that period because she has not been that way before or since that time.
We also just had sex the other night, we of course had her dildo out and I fucked her with it, and then brought it to her mouth. She grabbed it and licked it and then put it between our mouths for me to lick it as well. As I licked it she moaned, I asked her if she liked that and she said yes. I asked her specifically what she liked and she said my tongue and lips. I asked her what about them, she replied, my tongue and lips on the dick.
Thoughts on both the return to every other week sex versus the incredible week of every day and the new comment that she likes my tongue and lips on the dick??
We also just had sex the other night, we of course had her dildo out and I fucked her with it, and then brought it to her mouth. She grabbed it and licked it and then put it between our mouths for me to lick it as well. As I licked it she moaned, I asked her if she liked that and she said yes. I asked her specifically what she liked and she said my tongue and lips. I asked her what about them, she replied, my tongue and lips on the dick.
Thoughts on both the return to every other week sex versus the incredible week of every day and the new comment that she likes my tongue and lips on the dick??
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So over my years of dating women I've found more often than not they at least try to come off as pretty sexually reserved and inexperienced. Truth be told some are and some are afraid their actual past might scare the guy away. Since you and your wife met in high school and married shortly after I'm going to assume she's not lying and is pretty naïve sexually speaking. And Pat you're probably correct about being in the valley and if you want to get back to where you were last year I have some suggestions. I'll tell you that I've been very successful in turning demure and sexually shy women into well for lack of a better word nymphomaniacs some so much so that they became a bit more than I could handle! That said I've enjoyed each and every relationship greatly and still remain in contact with all of them. Point is be very sure you understand you might be opening Pandora's box.
So it sounds to me that she gets turned on by the thought of pleasuring and being pleasured by another woman therefore if you haven't already purchased some high quality erotic movies with a few hot girl on girl scenes then start searching now. If the wife indicates she's not into porn find Andrew Blake's night trips I & II, grab a couple of bottles of wine and after she's tipsy mention that a friend had given them to you and said they were amazing. trust me I've shown these films to many women who were completely opposed to porn, even had to bribe one of them, but each of them had a completely new attitude towards erotica after watching them.
Obviously the wife owns a vibrator, perhaps more than one. Just like erotic movies I've found more crap out there than quality. I probably own over 200 toys but in reality the girl and I have maybe 3-4 go to toys. The one we have the most fun with is an Adam & Eve unit called Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh! It's a vibrator that is inserted in a pair of panties (included) with a remote. It's got 5 different settings plus a sound mode. I can't begin to tell you how turned on my girlfriend gets after wearing it out to dinner, a club or a concert. The sound mode is her personal favorite it turns her into a completely horny woman and this is a gal that 3 years ago had never used a toy or watched porn! You may want to combine these panties and a night out before watching the movie if you're concerned about getting the wife into watching the porn. I would also recommend buying her a sexy age appropriate dress, nice heels and stay up stockings and a personal favorite of mine a 1/4-1/2 cup shelf bra and depending on your finances treat her to a day at a spa as you want her to feel and look sexy.
Lastly if you go through with all this don't let it go to waste by just getting off and going to sleep. While you're out make sure you show her lots passion. Kiss her deeply, tell her how delicious she looks, run your hands up her legs and press on the vibrator and ask her if she's getting wet. If you go dancing make sure you switch over to the sound mode and set the level to 4 or 5 and on the way home ask her to slip a couple of fingers in her sex and slip them in your mouth so you can taste and feel how wet she is. When you get home try making out and playing touchy/feely after you open the passenger door and if she doesn't know about the movie tell her you have one last surprise. Ask her to go get comfortable but to leave the lingerie and heels on. Lite some candles, pour her a drink and when she comes in explain a friend had given you a sexy movie and tell her that if she didn't care for it after 10 minuets to just say the word. I assure you you'll not get that response. both these films are very well done and you'll both want to jump each other but I find discussing things like how impressive the set looks, how hot the models look, asking her if she finds the girl or guy hot, then getting a little more risqué and, in your case, probably exploring if she was still having her fantasies from last year.
Again I have to warn you I personally have never dated a woman that once exposed to the naughtier side of life didn't become a completely different person. I'm a pretty open minded, kinky and naughty guy but I've had two gals go from lame to porn stars in the course of a year. Let me know how things work out for you guys.
Best Whishes,
Zona
So it sounds to me that she gets turned on by the thought of pleasuring and being pleasured by another woman therefore if you haven't already purchased some high quality erotic movies with a few hot girl on girl scenes then start searching now. If the wife indicates she's not into porn find Andrew Blake's night trips I & II, grab a couple of bottles of wine and after she's tipsy mention that a friend had given them to you and said they were amazing. trust me I've shown these films to many women who were completely opposed to porn, even had to bribe one of them, but each of them had a completely new attitude towards erotica after watching them.
Obviously the wife owns a vibrator, perhaps more than one. Just like erotic movies I've found more crap out there than quality. I probably own over 200 toys but in reality the girl and I have maybe 3-4 go to toys. The one we have the most fun with is an Adam & Eve unit called Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh! It's a vibrator that is inserted in a pair of panties (included) with a remote. It's got 5 different settings plus a sound mode. I can't begin to tell you how turned on my girlfriend gets after wearing it out to dinner, a club or a concert. The sound mode is her personal favorite it turns her into a completely horny woman and this is a gal that 3 years ago had never used a toy or watched porn! You may want to combine these panties and a night out before watching the movie if you're concerned about getting the wife into watching the porn. I would also recommend buying her a sexy age appropriate dress, nice heels and stay up stockings and a personal favorite of mine a 1/4-1/2 cup shelf bra and depending on your finances treat her to a day at a spa as you want her to feel and look sexy.
Lastly if you go through with all this don't let it go to waste by just getting off and going to sleep. While you're out make sure you show her lots passion. Kiss her deeply, tell her how delicious she looks, run your hands up her legs and press on the vibrator and ask her if she's getting wet. If you go dancing make sure you switch over to the sound mode and set the level to 4 or 5 and on the way home ask her to slip a couple of fingers in her sex and slip them in your mouth so you can taste and feel how wet she is. When you get home try making out and playing touchy/feely after you open the passenger door and if she doesn't know about the movie tell her you have one last surprise. Ask her to go get comfortable but to leave the lingerie and heels on. Lite some candles, pour her a drink and when she comes in explain a friend had given you a sexy movie and tell her that if she didn't care for it after 10 minuets to just say the word. I assure you you'll not get that response. both these films are very well done and you'll both want to jump each other but I find discussing things like how impressive the set looks, how hot the models look, asking her if she finds the girl or guy hot, then getting a little more risqué and, in your case, probably exploring if she was still having her fantasies from last year.
Again I have to warn you I personally have never dated a woman that once exposed to the naughtier side of life didn't become a completely different person. I'm a pretty open minded, kinky and naughty guy but I've had two gals go from lame to porn stars in the course of a year. Let me know how things work out for you guys.
Best Whishes,
Zona
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Wow quite a story. My ex wife had a similar period where she suddenly awakened sexually. We fantasized about different scenarios and one day I came home with her and a girl from work waiting for me. I almost had a heart attack. It was awesome for me but her fantasy of being with another woman didn't pan out the way she envisioned. Ultimately it led to our split up. That and many other things.
If you move forward I would do so cautiously. When you play that hand you are all in.
If you move forward I would do so cautiously. When you play that hand you are all in.
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My experience is that if someone finds a kink that really turns them on, it's pretty hard to put that genie back in the bottle. If she still enjoys watching you playing with the dildo, she's still into experimenting and exploring. I'd try talking aboout those fantasies, and pulling out those toys, more often. Using toys and building fantasies around them is pretty hot - we do that too. Like, a lot. :)
Good luck.
My experience is that if someone finds a kink that really turns them on, it's pretty hard to put that genie back in the bottle. If she still enjoys watching you playing with the dildo, she's still into experimenting and exploring. I'd try talking aboout those fantasies, and pulling out those toys, more often. Using toys and building fantasies around them is pretty hot - we do that too. Like, a lot. :)
Good luck.
