I was bitter about being cheated on...but now after this past relationship. ..well I never would have met him and he brought only joy and love to me
Its not his fault I wanted more
Some people just cannot give u what u want
So u call it a day...and thank them for the love they gave to you
But it took 49 years and a man I truly loved to feel that way
Don't trash anyone on the internet or anywhere
I used to trash one, calling her my psycho-ex-from-Hel. I got over it, and don't anymore. Even in the unlikely event my wife and I were to divorce, I don't think I would trash her.
I would never trash my ex-girlfriend. Sure, if there are questions about her, or if my later girlfriend will ask me about her I will tell her, but just with honesty and not with extreme bashing. Else there is no reason. And I wouldn't really warn others if they would go out with an ex-date or girlfriend. Especially if it just didn't work out between her and me. Maybe it will with others. I always wished them good luck and then the chapter was finished.
I never checked for my former dates and am not planning to do so. I might remember them, after all they are parts of my life experience. But I would never run after them again, e.g. for "another chance".
I would say: Step aside and move on. So I can find my girlfriend someday.
If I'm asked about a past relationship, I will explain why it ended, without making the person look bad, but I will be honest without getting too personal. What I don't like is when a person makes their ex look bad and entirely blames them for everything that went wrong in the relationship. It takes two to tango, just be fair.
I would never trash my ex. She was the love of my life for so many years. We may not be together any longer, but she is still a good person, the mother of my children and deserves my respect.
When my marriage ended years ago I actually went out of my way to burn bridges and cause him enough agony that he would trash me. I thought it would make me look like the victim. He never went there. it actually upset me in the years since I have had two other relationships neither worked. But I learned something from my ex and have tried very hard not to even talk about either of them. I think that people understand there are two sides to every story and the more bitter and ugly of a picture you try to paint of them the more poorly it reflects on you.
When my daughter got married last year her father actually insisted that I stay with him for the week of the wedding while there are no feelings between us I again realized he wasn't the demon I wanted everyone to believe he was. Some lessons are hard learned but still worth remembering.
I recently came out of a ten year relationship on good terms with my ex. I was very happy to break up as friends and without animosity. Now, Ive been able to tell her Im seeing someone else and she was genuinely happy for me.
I can't begin to express how much easier it is for me not to have to carry excess guilt around, Im truly amazed that it was so amicable
If you trash at your ex, then you are trashing at yourself too? Isn't that right?
After two marriages, the exes are also mothers of my children. I want my kids to be able to love and respect their mothers, and I can't teach my kids to be respectful, if I'm not respectful myself. So trashing is simply out of the question.
A little kindness can be so valuable, yet costs almost nothing
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Hey... pssst.... that's an l (as in luscious) at the end of my name, not an i Show class, he/she will look best out of the rear view mirror as you speed away and wave "Bye-Bye"
never trash your ex. rant/vent to a close friend if you must. doing so in public just makes you seem bitter and spiteful.
Human nature I'm afraid, I've done it out of a sense of bitter disappointment,
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.
Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
I embarrassed myself by doing that. I eventually got over the hurt and became a man.
If you walked out or ended the affair - then you have already trashed them.
If they abandoned you, there is no sense in trashing them - move on, there are many more where they came from, probably even better. The next affair you have will probably upset them more than you trashing them.
