Wrong. The only thing that classifies you as gay for both gender is your attraction to the same-sex. There is no particular sex-act that belongs exclusively to either the hetero or gay domain. This is not only the accurate outlook, this is the modern outlook.
Due to stereotypes and baseless fears, many men have been needlessly clenching their assholes in fear of anything getting near their backdoor because of the perceived implications. Rest assured that after experiencing anal stimulation you will not suddenly feel the overwhelming desire to wear pink, order frothing whip-cream lattes at Starbucks and start listening to Barbra Streisand and Cher. (This, of course, is another unfortunate gay stereotype which I shall explore later in another post.)
There are also many men that have been enjoying the pleasures of anal play in secret but are terrified of being found out because they are afraid of being mislabeled. It has become the dirty little secret of the sexually adventurous straight man.
So let's break things down, shall we?
Why would a straight man want to put his ass on the menu?
The reason is because the male g-spot (commonly referred to as the p-spot) is ONLY accessible through the anus. If we were to look at things strictly from a medical perspective, men should be more desirous of anal stimulation than women. Women do not have any overt pleasure zone in their anal cavities that is going to make them come like a tsunami, yet many women still enjoy the feeling of anal sex. Now, boys this doesn't mean that Olivia is advocating that you get your girlfriend to rush for the strap-on at the first go. But this does mean that if you haven't explored your p-spot yet, you are truly missing out on a higher level of sexual pleasure. After decades of whacking off, fucking girls, and experimenting with apple pies and watermelons you think you know it all, right? Wrong. There is a more intense and powerful orgasm that has been right at your fingertips the entire time! (no pun intended).
Boys, haven't you all had fantasies about being able to come like a firehose? Well, now is your chance!
Using your Fingers:
Insert a finger (digit finger works best) into your anus and let it slightly curve in the direction of your penis. Do not curve it in the direction of your spine (you're not hitting anything that way). You should feel a small round walnut-sized gland. Use a motion as though you are using your finger to beckon someone to come closer. From there you can start massage and stimulation in the manner that feels best. If you don't feel anything, it's possible that your finger is too short to reach and you may want to try a sex toy or have a partner stimulate you instead. If your girlfriend or wife has long nails or is worried about her manicure, it's quite common to use a long tapered rubber glove (not the loose dishwashing kind). This will prevent her nails from scratching you up as well. Make sure to use lube. Some special anal lubes will give you just the right amount of added slide. Some men are able to orgasm just from p-spot stimulation alone, but most enjoy it with some form of combined penis masturbation or oral sex. Your partner can can do both at the same time, or you can take over the manual stroking of your shaft while she concentrates her attention on your prostate.
Anal Toys:
Order them online if you have a fear of walking into a Sex Store and checking them out for yourself. There are many things on the market now. The most popular toy both for beginners and advanced is the Aneros. Not only is it hands-free, but it's also marketed as being good for your prostate health and health professionals recommend it as well! It comes in various shapes and sizes and works its way into a satisfying prostate massage without any major efforts on your own. It also tones all the muscles in your sexual system. You lay on your side, insert it and it works with your natural muscle contractions. For monster strong orgasms, use it during intercourse or masturbation.
There are also many anal-vibrators on the market that you can experiment with as well. Anal vibrators are tapered, slightly curved and made of softer material for those of you that are scared of size issues. But don't forget... if you had no problem sticking your dick into your girlfriend's ass, then you know you aren't going to 'break'. Use some lube and man up!
Are you ready for a Strap-On?
If you're experimented a little and like what you feel so far, you may want to experience the complete feeling of anal sex. Again, this does not mean you are gay. Unless you are inclined to believe that if your girlfriend enjoys anal sex that must mean that she's secretly a gay man trapped inside a woman's body. You will probably want to talk with her about it and maybe pick something out together. Many strap-on harnesses will allow for a change of dildo-size so you may want to start small and graduate to something bigger as you progress. Again, use lots of lube and experiment with different positions to see what feels best.
And please stop worrying about what 'other people' might think! It's important to be both secure and modern with your attitude about sexuality. That includes those of you that are scared of posting your comments in this thread for fear of it showing up in your status feed and causing a raised eyebrow.
Prostate stimulation also has many health benefits. This is also a good way to broach a discussion if you're uncertain as to how your partner might react to your interest in this topic. For more information on health benefits, you can check out the following website: prostate-massage-and-health.com/prostate-stimulation
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