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I consider myself straight but after discovering the wonders of anal masturbation im confused whether im straight/gay/bi or even bi-curious. the thought of fucking a man does not disgust me but the thought of being fucked does.
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I was straight into my forties, but curious about anal, which I finally tried (taking it up myself) -- I was blown away; it was so intense, and awakened a feminine sexuality lurking deep within me I never knew about! I indulge, bottom only (though I do love oral, too!), at every opportunity -- it's beautiful to let/have another man enter my body & fuck me & cum inside me!
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I was straight into my forties, but curious about anal, which I finally tried (taking it up myself) -- I was blown away; it was so intense, and awakened a feminine sexuality lurking deep within me I never knew about! I indulge, bottom only (though I do love oral, too!), at every opportunity -- it's beautiful to let/have another man enter my body & fuck me & cum inside me!
Ummm, indulging in anal play does not mean you are feminine.
You personally may consider that a feminine sexuality, I sure don't. In fact the strongest orgasms (for men) are achieved through prostate stimulation. The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker
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Thank you guys for the advice but, I think im just going to keep at the playing with my sphincter and see what happens when im out on the pull 
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I consider myself straight but after discovering the wonders of anal masturbation im confused whether im straight/gay/bi or even bi-curious. the thought of fucking a man does not disgust me but the thought of being fucked does.
I would try not to worry so much about labels. Many people feel compelled to fit themselves into an identifiable box, but the truth is that our sexuality is quite fluid and often changes over time as we get older. Experimentation is just curiosity. And fantasies are a very safe way to experiment, even psychologically, without actually resorting to the act itself.
Many straight men may watch gay porn, for example, and find themselves aroused by it and suddenly wonder if this means they are bisexual or gay. I actually know many women who watch gay porn and also become aroused by it, and it certainly doesn't mean that they are secretly gay men. We, as human beings, can become aroused by many fantasies or images of sex that we may not want to partake in ourselves, but the concept of it excites us. Sometimes it's the forbidden nature of these fantasies and images that heightens our level of excitement. This is completely normal and is not something that will change your sexual orientation.
When a man enjoys anal play it does not mean that they are bisexual or gay. Let's all join hands and repeat that one, because it seems like it's a recurrent point for confusion. It doesn't make you gay, nor does it turn people into bisexuals either. The coincidental point to remember here is that IF one actually IS bisexual or gay, they probably will enjoy anal-play as well. One does not lead to the other, but both straight and gay men will enjoy prostate stimulation in general.
Now Baconbutty, you do say in your post that the thought of fucking a man does not disgust you. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that it somewhat intrigues you or is a new fantasy for you. I would say that these bi-curious feelings are completely normal and it's up to you whether you want to explore them. Just go with what feels comfortable for you and don't worry about labels at this stage in the game. For now, it's all about fantasies and new experimentation.
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I consider myself straight but after discovering the wonders of anal masturbation im confused whether im straight/gay/bi or even bi-curious. the thought of fucking a man does not disgust me but the thought of being fucked does.
I would try not to worry so much about labels. Many people feel compelled to fit themselves into an identifiable box, but the truth is that our sexuality is quite fluid and often changes over time as we get older. Experimentation is just curiosity. And fantasies are a very safe way to experiment, even psychologically, without actually resorting to the act itself.
Many straight men may watch gay porn, for example, and find themselves aroused by it and suddenly wonder if this means they are bisexual or gay. I actually know many women who watch gay porn and also become aroused by it, and it certainly doesn't mean that they are secretly gay men. We, as human beings, can become aroused by many fantasies or images of sex that we may not want to partake in ourselves, but the concept of it excites us. Sometimes it's the forbidden nature of these fantasies and images that heightens our level of excitement. This is completely normal and is not something that will change your sexual orientation.
When a man enjoys anal play it does not mean that they are bisexual or gay. Let's all join hands and repeat that one, because it seems like it's a recurrent point for confusion. It doesn't make you gay, nor does it turn people into bisexuals either. The coincidental point to remember here is that IF one actually IS bisexual or gay, they probably will enjoy anal-play as well. One does not lead to the other, but both straight and gay men will enjoy prostate stimulation in general.
Now Baconbutty, you do say in your post that the thought of fucking a man does not disgust you. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume that it somewhat intrigues you or is a new fantasy for you. I would say that these bi-curious feelings are completely normal and it's up to you whether you want to explore them. Just go with what feels comfortable for you and don't worry about labels at this stage in the game. For now, it's all about fantasies and new experimentation.
thank you so much, i think this has helped me far more than research online. Yet again thank you
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Nothing wrong with it. Im bicurious and thats it. The word curious. We have a body right? Well why not explore every inch and if one place gives us some pleasure then whats wrong with it! I was really nervous when i first did it but now and kind of disgusted at myself. I thought i was gay (not what disgusted myself) but after all that passed it was just another way to masturbate and dear lord the orgasm was one of the best iv ever had by myself!
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Nothing wrong with it. Im bicurious and thats it. The word curious. We have a body right? Well why not explore every inch and if one place gives us some pleasure then whats wrong with it! I was really nervous when i first did it but now and kind of disgusted at myself. I thought i was gay (not what disgusted myself) but after all that passed it was just another way to masturbate and dear lord the orgasm was one of the best iv ever had by myself!
I was the exact same, and in the same position cant get enough of the anal play
This was / is such a helpful interesting thread! I'm fascinated by this issue, as I am only romantically attracted to women, yet love anal masturbation, and fantasize sometimes about being with another woman and a man. For whatever reason, I'm not at all attracted to inserting myself in a man, or having him suck me, but I do very much enjoy fantasizing about a man inserting himself in both my mouth or ass, in the company of another woman. Olivia's comments were wonderful. This is a great reason to love Lush. Very helpful. Thank you!
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What women like to do good must not be so deprived of the men. Even a woman can spoil a man like anal. With the tongue, the fingers or a vibrator. The closeness, the feeling of a hardening cock is a delicacy.
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It certainly is nothing to be disgusted or ashamed of. I use a lot of anal play when I masturbate. We all have little foibles that turn us on or make the sensation better. I like biting, anal play, fur (come and get me, PETA lol), etc, etc. Your only limitation is yourself and the taboos that you chose to indulge in.
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Don't be so quick to knock sex with a guy before you try it. Just because you like anal play doesn't mean you're gay by any stretch. A lot of guys like fingers playing with their ass while they get a blow job, it's amazing. But sex with another guy can be a whole wonderful experience of it's own. Again, it all depends on what YOU'RE comfortable with.
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Don't be so quick to knock sex with a guy before you try it. Just because you like anal play doesn't mean you're gay by any stretch. A lot of guys like fingers playing with their ass while they get a blow job, it's amazing. But sex with another guy can be a whole wonderful experience of it's own. Again, it all depends on what YOU'RE comfortable with.
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anal penetration provides an intense arousal and orgasm.. deeper is better..
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A lot of guys don't mind a women fucking their ass with a dildo, fingers or a vibe, so why not try a nice hot cock as well?
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A lot of guys don't mind a women fucking their ass with a dildo, fingers or a vibe, so why not try a nice hot cock as well?
Pardon me while I play with my mental blocks. It's just not interesting or sexually appealing. I wouldn't ask a lesbian who likes dildos "Why not try a cock" or a gay man who likes crossdressers "Why not try a pussy?" There are reasons people are what they are, but it's not as simple as "If you'll stretch your hole with one thing, why not anything?"
My latest story is too hot to publish. My most recent story before that is Even Stranger In Lust
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LOL, good point. My main thinking here is that women (and society in general) seem to be more open to sexual experimentation than men are. I was just thinking that some men are comfortable with their girl friends doing it, but uncomfortable at having a sex with a man, because he would be considered gay and that just seems more than women being lesbians.
I definitely agree that a real cock is not the same as a dildo. It was more the concept that a lot of men will deny liking anything in their ass, when in fact they do allow their girl friends to use different objects there.
I definitely agree that a real cock is not the same as a dildo. It was more the concept that a lot of men will deny liking anything in their ass, when in fact they do allow their girl friends to use different objects there.