Recently, a casual acquaintance quite literally saved my life, becoming injured in the process. I said that if there was anything I could do to repay him, anything at all, he had only to ask. Well, he has asked. He wants me to have sex with him, both oral and anal. Now I will admit to being bicurious but inexperienced. But he is not someone that I am the leaast bit attracted to. I did give my word, though and I am curious. Should I do it?
Erotica is writing that is intended to arouse and excite sexual feelings and desires in the writer. We read erotica to get turned-on, to get hot and bothered, to get hard and wet. Admit it. Enjoy it.
This "friend" of yours reminds me of the type that drives an ugly brown van and has a stock of kiddie candy and lost-puppy leashes in the back of it... He's just targeting a different demographic.
My advice?
No, you do not need to let your friend have his way with you in order to repay him.
I think it's commonly known that when we say "If there is anything I can do to return the favor", we aren't usually talking about blow-jobs and ass fucking. Your friend is quite the manipulative pervert.
i would not tell him that you are bi-curious (that will just lead to unnecessary complications), but just explain that you are not attracted to men so this 'favor' isn't going to happen. This is not the Medieval Times so you aren't indebted to him to the degree that you must do whatever he asks or he will avenge your rejection by setting up a new accident which brings your original fate into play.
Just simply ask for a different non-sexual request.
Or, if you want to keep it kinky, you can offer to pay for a male escort to give him the fucking of his life. Your credit card, but not your ass. That seems fair for all involved.
If you are 'curious' enough to be leaning towards saying yes, then I'd recommend a lot of alcohol and a lot of lube (and set the ground rules before the action starts).
Let us know how it turns out!
I told him "no". I tried to be polite. He said that hee was just kidding and had neever meeant it. Now he wants to know why I was even considering it. I get the feeling that he would really like to have it happen and that it will be a long time before he drops the whole thing.
Erotica is writing that is intended to arouse and excite sexual feelings and desires in the writer. We read erotica to get turned-on, to get hot and bothered, to get hard and wet. Admit it. Enjoy it.
Olivia is spot on!
Glad you said no, as you weren't happy with the situation. If he does pester you for explanations, just say you hesitated as you were so shocked by his proposition that you didn't know what to say, and were just being polite. Then talk a lot about sexy attributes of women!!
There will be time enough to explore bi-curious feelings with someone with whom there is a mutual attraction. Not someone who is chancing things!!
Him asking that is way out of line. NO YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DO THAT!
I dunno Buz, I think I'd throw a whole mind blowing scenario back on this acquaintance's doorstep as an affirmative answer to him that yes, I would like to engage also.
Then I'd describe a possible series of sexual deviations for him to consider, where he would be...(well, some things should not be discussed in public or on Lush).
Ya get my drift, man? Make it so absurd and cringe worthy that nobody in their right mind would accept the offer. As Aunt Olivia suggested...these are not the medieval ages, but what the acquaintance is suggest certainly sounds like it...so, go with the flow and suggest perhaps an all male gangbang-circle jerk-bukkaki festival. With the casual acquaintance as the guest recipient of honor! Just tell him that this is something you've wondered if you'd ever be able to engage in again with another willing participant...and that is what you were in fact, considering.
Something along those lines. The only problem is...that you may have to follow through eventually.
We humans are a funny lot of mixed up emotional and mental gadgetry. I think you'll learn Mickey, that you're capable of going places which you currently have not even considered.
I've found that when someone tosses an outrageous hand grenade in my direction, rather than running off or ducking for cover, it's often much more effective to merely place that firecracker in to a paper sack full of dog crap and launch it back into their Bentley, so-to-speak. The ball is then in their court and the onus is on them to respond. It often slams the door shut.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
I think you have to be honest with him and let him know that you do not find him attractive in that way but if there was anything else you could do for him you would be willing to consider ti
