Meeting a crossdressing friend for the first time

I have an online crossdressing friend, we have exchanged many photos and are both eager to meet for the first time.

It will be a fist time for me, I think he has had a couple of unsuccessful meets.

My problem is basically what do you think is expected of me.

I love nudity and I know that he wants to be properly dressed for me.

Should we just have coffee together, should we hug and maybe kiss, should I undress so that he sees the effect that he has on me.

If things progress, then can I expect that we may masturbate together or even progress to performing oral.

I have asked what he would like and his reply is that I leave happier than when I arrived.

Help please. What are your views.

If you two will meet, let it be somewhere public just in case it doesn't go well, the hotel room doesn't go to waste. If you two have spoken about being sexual and have both done the adult thing by getting STD tested w/ results to be shared, then use each other sexually.

Buy them M.A.C lipstick. Make it special for the two of you.

Hopefully this is an actual meet up and not you spewing fantasy just because you fell asleep watching crossdressing porn.

I would say that's a question for him. You two should work out expectations and limitations before meeting. A lot of times online or apps guys won't come out and say what they want, I'm always upfront with what I want to happen and if there's something they're not into they will then let me know. If you're both first timers and unsure be clear about how you prefer to proceed andante possible limits.

Impurethoughts, Okay, sex should be fun, pleasurable, exciting, anticipation is a plus.

He excites me and gets me very aroused in the way he dresses, I admit to masturbating at the thoughts of meeting him in person and the thoughts of any sexual contact between us.

There is a hiatus in that he has not been vaccinated against covid, whilst I have a full set.

I agree with you that hopefully this is an actual meet, but meantime there is the anticipation and all that goes with it.

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If you two will meet, let it be somewhere public just in case it doesn't go well, the hotel room doesn't go to waste. If you two have spoken about being sexual and have both done the adult thing by getting STD tested w/ results to be shared, then use each other sexually.

Buy them M.A.C lipstick. Make it special for the two of you.

Hopefully this is an actual meet up and not you spewing fantasy just because you fell asleep watching crossdressing porn.