Ever since I met the new gf I have had feelings for her daughter . she is flirty and all over me. she just hugs and kisses when she can. allways very sexual and giving me the come on. I feel like I have to leave or this will get serious. she came into the bedroom one night and snuggled up while her mum was asleep. I had a hard on and I think she wants to have sex. what should I do?
WAKE UP! See if your pecker is still down there.
LOL. I have a long-gestating story about this very concept (guy with his partner's daughter). Never got it finished past the young woman "inadvertantly" flashing him, though.
You definitely fell asleep watching tabooish porn.
But, if you want, end it w/ the gf and date the daughter if she's over 18yrs of age.
Love can complicate so many otherwise wonderful events.
First - is she above the age of consent.
Then - what if her mother finds out.
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This may be far too late but here's a few comments.
1. Have you considered that what puts heat in that spark between you two is the fact you're not supposed to be attracted to each other in the first place.
I know guys who go to a bar and can gather dust waiting for a girl to even smile at them. Put an engagement ring on them, and suddenly they're much more interesting.
I've seen women flirt wildly with them, knowing they're not supposed to respond back. The fun goes out of it pretty fast if they put the ring in their pocket and pretend to be single again.
Strangely the fact they are available makes them instantly less hot.
If you and this girl bumped into each other in the club would you ravage each other like you were starving or just flirt a little and move on?
I suspect you'd find this girl a whole lot less alluring if she was properly free to hook up with you.
2. Have you considered what signals this sends to the partner in your life?
I mean it's one thing to learn your man wants to fuck another woman, you might be persuaded to make it a threesome, or just watch the fun.
It's a whole other ballgame when you find out your rival, is your own daughter.
I would find that incredibly hurtful, humiliating, and make me seriously question my choice of man.
3. What do you intend to do about this situation?
It can be fun to flirt a little with someone else, but you have to know this is a very high risk low reward situation for all involved.
YOU need to carefully consider what you actually want from your relationships with these women, and what you're prepared to do to reassert that balance.
At the moment you're stringing one woman along with the suggestion you might get into a more physical relationship with them, and with another woman you're asserting that you're a devoted faithful lover they can build a life with.
You need to work out which of these two you're going to stand with, and which you're going to reject.
You have to consider that if you pair up with this girl, she's likely to face a severely negative response from her mother, certainly damage that bond, and probably doubt the value of your commitment to her if you're prepared to bounce her mother for a new piece of ass that easily.
Still your life is yours to lead, just take your time, listen to your intuition and whatever happens accept all the consequences of making your choices.
Anything else is just refusing to accept responsibility for your life and owning your choices.
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You haven't specified how old this person is. There is a big difference between say, seventeen and twenty-two. My guess is that she is towards the younger end of the scale. Ideally - which is often just not the case - it'a better to be involved with people who are free and clear of other entanglements. That is just not true here. Maybe it would be a duller but saner world if everybody did follow that path.
