here's the down-low. we're free to fuck up our own lives as much as we want. it's our choice. purposefully having an affair with an married man, though, is fucking up someone (plural) else's life. i would suggest you keep it as a fantasy. if it really turns you on, find someone who will RP being married and have an affair with him.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
There are any number of married men out there who would just love to make your fantasy come true. And keep making it come true for as many times as you need it. OH, If I wasn't sooo damn old!!!!
As some of the others say, in fantasy this may be a major turn on but in reality may be a car crash waiting to happen, with a ripple effect consequence wise. Sprite's RP idea actually makes very good sense. All the fun, none of the fallout!!
There are married couples who have open relationships and are looking for other partners, in either a group or individually. So that's one option to fulfill your fantasy without hurting anyone. However, if it's the secrecy and the "I'm doing something wrong" feeling you're looking for, I agree with the others above; don't do it. It won't end well.
She's a saint with the lips of a sinner.
- r.m. drake
Please don't..just don't...
If you don't care that you will reap what you sow..meaning he won't ever leave his wife for you
Think about perhaps the kids lives you will wreck
If the wife finds out..she will take out her rage on her husband and the kids will suffer
If he leaves her for you..you will rob them of their dad
All for what..some fantasy that is just about you taking another woman's man
Please I beg you..go find a single man..he can put on a ring and meet you in a bar and you can PLAY out your fantasy and not hurt anyone
I know men will message you on here
Arnt you worth more than a man who cheats on a woman he took vows with?
If you HAVE to..can you at least pick a man with no kids so they don't get their home broken too
My kids are still paying for my mistake..and I still cannot look at myself in the mirror
And their father six years later is still full of rage and hate
Please..just..don't
I never recommend adultery because marriage is a big deal and your actions impact others--like kids.
But bisexuality should always be acted on. It is a desire that everyone has from time to time and I encounter hundreds of guys in the chat room who are "bi-curious" behaving very slutty but will never take action. I feel sorry for them because I know how hot and hard these fantasies make them.
Bisexuality is all in how you deal with it in your head. And if you can accept the fact that you are a "cocksucker" or a "lezzie" you have opened up a whole new world of pleasure.
I think lots of people get hung up on the act and think that they have to jump totally into an alternative lifestyle.
It's just sex...it's just about getting a big orgasm. After that, you return to living your life.
It isn't fair to the innocent wife. Find a single guy and roleplay it
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
Even though you have no real responsibility whatsoever towards the partner, married or not, and perhaps even children of any man who's willing to have an affair with you, you are responsible for your own actions. Do you really want to be the tool that enables some bastard to do his cheating?
Like cherrycola703 suggested, try to find a man who's in an open relationship. It may be less exciting, but better for your conscience.
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