hi

Quote by bookworm02
the word is so out there if i tell you im 25 still virgin what would you say?

not for the lack wanting to lose it just led a very conservative upbringing told sex should be between ones you love, so yeah i get that but i just have needs, and closeted because of certain health issues arthritus for one,

i fell like am an alien in world sexual people i have no confidence at all so any advice help out there am a pretty good girl but naughty when doors closed dont i wish i had a teacher to teach me sigh i feel like such a loser

I would say, you are not alone. There are plenty of virgins on Lush, and in the world. Some lurk, some advertise, some are bothered, some aren't.

When I joined Lush, it was to learn more about what "normal" people experience as part of every day life. For whatever reasons (some the same as yours, by your account), I never had the opportunity to explore like most other people do.

You aren't a loser, even if you feel like it. I think you are lonely, and feel unwanted.

But it isn't always a reflection on you, just because you never had the opportunities or confidence, or whatever. Since I joined Lush, I have learned not only about sex, ways to do it (or not), helpful tips and advice, but I have also been able to explore how other people work psychologically and physically, how I feel about certain subjects, and most of all, about myself. I am clearer now on what I may or may not like, and through a few very close friends, I am slowly gaining a little confidence in both how I feel about myself, how I understand others see me, and how I feel about my body.

I say, stick around! Read. Chat. Think. Maybe write. That's how I usually explore my own feelings, or try to understand others. See the site as a journey of fun and exploration, because it might just be a "safe" way to begin your journey into not being a virgin any more, if that's what you wish.

And no doubt you will have plenty of people lining up to teach you various things here! Be careful.

Quote by Shylass


I would say, you are not alone. There are plenty of virgins on Lush, and in the world. Some lurk, some advertise, some are bothered, some aren't.

When I joined Lush, it was to learn more about what "normal" people experience as part of every day life. For whatever reasons (some the same as yours, by your account), I never had the opportunity to explore like most other people do.

You aren't a loser, even if you feel like it. I think you are lonely, and feel unwanted.

But it isn't always a reflection on you, just because you never had the opportunities or confidence, or whatever. Since I joined Lush, I have learned not only about sex, ways to do it (or not), helpful tips and advice, but I have also been able to explore how other people work psychologically and physically, how I feel about certain subjects, and most of all, about myself. I am clearer now on what I may or may not like, and through a few very close friends, I am slowly gaining a little confidence in both how I feel about myself, how I understand others see me, and how I feel about my body.

I say, stick around! Read. Chat. Think. Maybe write. That's how I usually explore my own feelings, or try to understand others. See the site as a journey of fun and exploration, because it might just be a "safe" way to begin your journey into not being a virgin any more, if that's what you wish.

And no doubt you will have plenty of people lining up to teach you various things here! Be careful.