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I tend to get a lot of crushes/infatuations especially online. I met one and I wound up having an affair.
I may meet another one soon. I wonder if these crushes/infatuations I get are healthy b/c I have had my heart broken before.
I fell in love with one of my crushes and she is unhappily married. My current love interest doesn't mind me having crush/infatuation
but I sometimes feel I am not bieng faithful. I have trouble letting go and have a hard time with goodbyes when the crush/infatuation
finally ends. I find myself going into a depression after that. Any advice on dealing with these issues in a healthy way would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.

-Beck
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I tend to get a lot of crushes/infatuations especially online. I met one and I wound up having an affair.
I may meet another one soon. I wonder if these crushes/infatuations I get are healthy b/c I have had my heart broken before.
I fell in love with one of my crushes and she is unhappily married. My current love interest doesn't mind me having crush/infatuation
but I sometimes feel I am not bieng faithful. I have trouble letting go and have a hard time with goodbyes when the crush/infatuation
finally ends. I find myself going into a depression after that. Any advice on dealing with these issues in a healthy way would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.

-Beck


So Beck is this crush / infatuation with your current Mistress of which you wore another Mistresses collar? Or is this the woman whom you posted about before that you totally worship?

Just trying to get my facts straight in order to see how I should reply.
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Hey bro. I have an infatuation/crush with another woman. I love my Mistress though.
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Hey bro. I have an infatuation/crush with another woman. I love my Mistress though.


But if you had to choose one would you choose your Mistress who beats you according to you, or someone else who you decided to disrespect your Mistress with by wearing their collar when you already had been collared?
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so u are a slut..smile..basically...hey pass by the married chicks...if u want more..u will get your heart broken..if you want some hot sex...the carry on...does you ah mistress know you are catting about?

ps when something eds..of course u get sad...or u could b ADD...
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My Mistress knows I talk to other women and sometimes in a naughty way. She doesn't mind just so long as I don't get carried away.
Crushes/infatuations fade but true love is forever and if I had to choose in the long run I will always go with my Mistress no matter what.
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or u could b ADD...


Please don't bring up that as an excuse. I'm ADHD and I have no other crushes on other people than my Master, and I know many with the condition who don't feel any need to go out and cheat on their partners. So please, leave the disability the fuck out of conversations like this unless he does have an official diagnosis of it.
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My Mistress knows I talk to other women and sometimes in a naughty way. She doesn't mind just so long as I don't get carried away.
Crushes/infatuations fade but true love is forever and if I had to choose in the long run I will always go with my Mistress no matter what.


If you had to choose? True love? I guess it's not True Love forsaking all others, then? Out of interest, does your mistress love you too?

If you feel that sometimes you are being unfaithful, why on earth don't you stop doping whatever it is that makes you feel that way? Like, not engaging in chatting, etc with a sexual slant, or those people to whom you feel drawn that deeply? Be pro-active and do something about it. If you stay away from whatever makes you feel you are being unfaithful, you will then be able to feel proud that you were faithful, which leads to lack of feeling depressed afterwards. No?
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Thank you. Um my mistress has said I love you to me many times and I believe her. Good points all around. I actually have been staying away from others whom I feel tempted by and so far as good. I am proud that I was able to be faithful now and know what triggers me. Thanks for responding Shy Lass.
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Thank you. Um my mistress has said I love you to me many times and I believe her. Good points all around. I actually have been staying away from others whom I feel tempted by and so far as good. I am proud that I was able to be faithful now and know what triggers me. Thanks for responding Shy Lass.

My Mistress too has told me She loves me & I have told Her how much I love Her so I must say We are infatuated with each other & I too try to stay loyal to Mistress & away from women I know I shouldn't talk to
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Thank you. Um my mistress has said I love you to me many times and I believe her. Good points all around. I actually have been staying away from others whom I feel tempted by and so far as good. I am proud that I was able to be faithful now and know what triggers me. Thanks for responding Shy Lass.


I have to be honest, Beck, I find you very confusing, and not a little odd, but a great deal odd. You often post questions, and when people respond, you completely agree with them, as if you had no need of asking the question in the first place.

I'm very confused. I'm not complaining, I'm just very confused. I could come up with loads of reasons that I would find plausible as to why this is, but I fear that once again, you simply happily agree with whatever it was I came up with. So I'll ask you outright: Why?
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I have to be honest, Beck, I find you very confusing, and not a little odd, but a great deal odd. You often post questions, and when people respond, you completely agree with them, as if you had no need of asking the question in the first place.

I'm very confused. I'm not complaining, I'm just very confused. I could come up with loads of reasons that I would find plausible as to why this is, but I fear that once again, you simply happily agree with whatever it was I came up with. So I'll ask you outright: Why?


Thank you Shylass, for saying everything that I have been thinking with OP.

I am confuzzzzzzed as well. Not to sound weird, but perhaps OP has many planets in Gemini, Pisces or Libra .... you know .... unable to decide, sees both sides, sees many sides, figures others can solve the many piece puzzle.

Oh, and the question "Why?" may be a very involved answer .... get your coffee!!
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"So please, leave the disability the fuck out of conversations like this unless he does have an official diagnosis of it. "

ouch!!!!

was a bad joke....woah


forgive me
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"So please, leave the disability the fuck out of conversations like this unless he does have an official diagnosis of it. "

ouch!!!!

was a bad joke....woah


forgive me


Not something you should joke about.

So long as I don't see you doing it again I'll forgive you.
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Thank you Shylass, for saying everything that I have been thinking with OP.

I am confuzzzzzzed as well. Not to sound weird, but perhaps OP has many planets in Gemini, Pisces or Libra .... you know .... unable to decide, sees both sides, sees many sides, figures others can solve the many piece puzzle.

Oh, and the question "Why?" may be a very involved answer .... get your coffee!!


I have to slightly disagree, I'm afraid. I doubt we will get an answer at all. But I do agree that whatever the answer actually is, then it no doubt is very involved.

Why?
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I have to slightly disagree, I'm afraid. I doubt we will get an answer at all. But I do agree that whatever the answer actually is, then it no doubt is very involved.

Why?


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My Mistress knows I talk to other women and sometimes in a naughty way. She doesn't mind just so long as I don't get carried away.


We need a definition here, Beck.

Are photos of her taint puckering and glistening, sent to your email inbox an example of her getting carried away or you - should you open and look at those photographs?

Or is this just another stepping stone on the road to carried away?
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Whether it's a Mistress or Master, Dom or Domme, lover, partner, straight or gay relationship, if you feel the need to play around with another (unless possibly as a couple, or pre-agreed to by both parties), then in my opinion, there is something missing from the original relationship. And it is cheating. Especially if the other partner is unaware of the ongoing activities. If these activities tend to become more than just sexual flirtations (and it sounds to me like they often might) and you really love your Mistress as you say, then it would be best to avoid any outside relationship.