I'm in the 60+ category and usually have a very active sex life.. But in the past few months, I can't orgasm anymore.. Either with my boyfriend or lover or many new toys..Doesn't happen while masterbating, or from oral or from toys...I can't imagine going through the rest of my life with out cumming...Maybe i need a "bad boy" macho man... Help.....
maybe you are trying too hard?
Loss of sex drive and orgasm often accompany old age, but not necessarily so. I have a women friend whose sex drive died after menopause, which she hated. And very little research has been devoted to female sexual dysfunction, in part because it doesn't actually prevent sex like impotence does.
First thing is to worry about your own health with diet and exercise. Second, see your doctor. Viagra and its like can help women, or so I've heard. Third, try a vibrator, although you may already have one in your 'toys'.
Good luck, I hope you can fix this.
Is it just me or is everyone assuming that her inability to achieve an orgasm is the same as losing her sex drive??? Not the samething at all. DDD talk to your doctor. It may or may not be a physical thing. Sometimes I have that issue and I am in my early 40s. It is usually because my mind is elsewhere or something inane. It is frustrating as hell so I understand how you feel.
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X
If this keeps on definitely talk to a doctor. Sometimes it is hormonal and medication can help.