You sound like a really good friend to this girl, Kyle, and that's exactly the advice I would be giving in that situation.
However, be careful not to come across as jealous or like you're trying to break them up for your own benefit. Trying to give relationship advice to someone you used to have feelings for (perhaps still do) can be very tricky. I've fallen foul of this myself a few times and it took a lot of fixing.
She'll listent to you eventually. Be there for her when it all goes to shit (I'm sure you will anyway).
Sounds like your 'friend' is under the influence of a pied piper of fucking. When I was younger I used to fuck my ex girlfriends too. They knew it was just for fun and your ex probably knows it too. Of course there will be deeper feelings when fucking an ex. Has anyone here not cuddled after fucking an ex and thought about the times when you were together?
What you have to think about is WHY she is telling YOU all of this. She probably knows it fucks with your emotions. Especially if she left you and she knows you still like her. I mean you're making time to take her to lunch 'n' shit when you can be doing ANYTHING else, like maybe taking a new girl to lunch. She might just be playing the victim to get some kind of odd reaction from you.
Some vampires walk in the daylight and they aren't after your blood.
If he moved out of town and only visits for a quick fuck and never wants to be seen in public... um.. that dude has a wife or fiance' or girlfriend.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates If you're her friend tell her she's a fuckbuddy. This is the best way to get through to her. Why keep hanging around if she wants more? He either can't deliver what she wants or doesn't want to. If she sticks to it, then she deserves the hurt that she will undoubtedly receive from him. Harsh, I know but it's so obvious and most time we need to experience harsh.
been the girl in this story
he has another chick who he is showing around town, then dropping in on her to do the freaky deaky
she is merely the"f++k" buddy
tell her to grow a set and kick him to the curb
is she not worth a full time i want to do you all the time guy?