Quote by nickatplay
Wtf do you know, overmykneenow? I think for you to pick those words out of the whole of my post shows you know very little and understand less.
Let's have some respect and reality here...
I NEVER write BDSM... (I don't REALLY get it, so I don't paddle in that pool...)
I DO have a Cyber Lover I FREQUENTLY refer to a as slut, and worse, (I ASKED her permission to do that!) and it's one of our jokes that at CERTAIN times she'll remind of what is in fact MY equal dependence on HER!!!
If someone suggested to me that I was in fact A DOM as commonly (mis) understood by that term I'd really object to that, and yet, in SOME WAYS I guess I occasionally play that role as part of a MUCH bigger, more involving (and I believe) passionate, loving and respectful game...
Both of us are writers, both aware our Cyber Play is JUST that, but of course elements of reality sometimes creep in, usually making the scenes more believable, intense and "real'... And HIGHLY enjoyable, (and often very funny...) for both of us.
Example: We disagree politically on a lot of things and when that comes up in what can be argumentative discussion, my "Little Hooker" often ACES me by saying, "Yeah, you can SAY that but you're the one who likes licking my dirty Republican panties you kinky LIBERAL!!!"
There's no real comeback on that!!! Because it's TRUE!!!
My point is this... Be VERY VERY careful how you GENERALISE about what happens in ANYONE else's "bedroom" or wherever indeed... My LIMITED understanding of a TRUE Sub/Dom partnership leads me to believe it is indeed JUST THAT, a PARTNERSHIP...
As it happens, I think that OMKN, (a moniker that might indicate a certain DOM sensibility?) was touched as many of us were by the initial post and rushed to guard/protect a fellow member from possible exploitation... A noble goal EXCEPT when one is not in possession of all the facts.
So play nice, Kids!
xx Stephen
