It’s the 1970’s, somewhere in the English home counties. My new girlfriend Lucy and I are both eighteen years old. We are in the sixth form of the local grammar school and with good luck will be going to university next year.
We have been dating for about a month. Lucy lives a little out of town in a village, so all our dates so far have been in the town. Today is the first time I’ve been invited to visit Lucy’s home. After school we take the bus to her village and walk together to Lucy’s house. Lucy’s home is a fairly large detached house surrounded by its own grounds.
As we approach her home, I’m a little surprised as Lucy ignores the front door. Instead we go around the side of the house and enter via an unlocked side door. We go through a utility room and into a rather large traditional kitchen. In fact the kitchen is huge, it has an aga, a farmhouse table and chairs that could comfortably seat ten people. Lucy’s mother is smartly dressed, clearly a professional of some sort. However, she is also wearing an apron and has obviously just been baking. It's a little awkward, and I can sense the tension as Lucy introduces me to her mother. Lucy’s mother looks me up and down, evaluating with some suspicion before she greets me.
Lucy’s mother says that before we have tea there is something we need to establish. She goes to a wall where a cane is hanging from a hook. She takes the cane from its hook and hands it to me. She asks me if I know what it is. It’s what I now know to be a traditional senior school cane. It looks pretty intimidating, being fairly long, maybe thirty inches. It’s of medium thickness with a crooked handle. I tell her it is a cane. She agrees, then explains it’s purpose is to instill discipline. Apparently, if I’m going to date her daughter and be in her house I need to understand the meaning of discipline.