I come here to discuss my wife's psychology to get ideas for bringing out her kinks, or to RP about it. No cuck. The kinks I love to imagine her falling into are mostly bimbofication or her getting with her mom because I know she has powerful and unpredictable, albeit negative for now, emotions around those.

I've been slowly bringing out my wife's repressed kinks for years but kind of stalled out after nipple clamps and anal. She's pretty repressed, looks down on kink so avoids it. I know she has it in her based on some signs. I wouldn't pressure her but I'm looking for help working with her complex psychology and probable mom issues that are making her uptight.

she's only kinky when she's clit vibing. she can't really edge, either she goes for one big orgasm or pulls back from the edge and can only get two small ones, so I don't have time to introduce elaborate kink. I do know that she still reads literotica and I think it is pervy stuff she wants to keep private from me. I think she masturbates once every week or two and it seems to be a quick vibe session to take the edge off. I wrote her a story on a different account, it got 4.5/5.0 stars but she wasn't into it at all.
She doesn't drink or smoke, half glass of wine makes her a bit laughy then sick. Though one time while tipsy she did put on a crazy show for me as I was driving at night.

i managed to show her that having my thumb or a small plug up her ass makes her cum harder during sex than without, as long as she has her clit vibe going which she needs to be aroused. we now almost always use a small or medium plug and she LOVES when i pop it in and out but she won't go bigger. she tried the bigger one once after using the medium a bit but said it was too big and had to take it out. but she told me that she went to a bachelorette party and played Never Have I Ever. When anal was mentioned, she denied it as they all did, but she said they all looked guilty.

she LOVES watching me jack off while she vibrates. She enjoys sucking me, especially if I gently push the back of her head up and down, or if I jerk off while she sucks the head and let my fist bump her lips repeatedly. She loves when I cum inside her, that can set off her orgasm, even if I just say I'm close. She always said she'd hate having me cum on her face or tits, but the few times we've done it, even grinding on her tits, she liked it.

she dresses really prudish and has an irrational hatred of "bimbo type" women. i think it is because her bipolar mom is one, not dumb but dramatic with big fake tits, and they don't get along. so now she's over the top prudish and stresses a lot. but she once told me about a dream where she awoke in the hospital with implants (which her mom has). felt like a hypocrite, mad at herself, wanted them out. when i told her some part of her might like the look, she blew up and made me take it back. when i asked how big they were, she claimed she forgot.

Update: she didn't mind at all wearing a black collar with a little lock on it during sex. She was actually interested in the little black leather sex hardness I got to bind her spread legs to her wrists. I think the "pink cheerleader" submissive isn't a fit for her but traditional D/s, in bed only, might work for her.

Update: I had previously tried having her suck a dildo during sex and she sort of liked it. I also know she reads an author who does group stories. So I tried getting her turned on with her vibrator, switching to doggy style sex, and having her suck the dildo while taking her small princess plug. I got very verbal, telling her to suck and to fuck back on me, telling her to make everyone cum in her, and pushing on the back of her head. She went wild for it, pumping her head up and down on it. I've never seen her get into a fantasy before, all of the kink we'd done was always explained away as a physical pleasure not mental. Afterwards we talked and confirmed that it was hot and that we'd never want to really do it. But that's a breakthrough, the first time she used her imagination in bed.

Update: I'd pointed out that we'd not been as romantic in awhile and I was feeling increasingly detached from the relationship. Two days later as I drove her home from a friend's party where she was a bit tipsy, she put on a show for me like I'd never seen. Playing with herself in the passenger seat, taking off clothes every few minutes as I tried to drive, unzipping and jacking me. When we got home, we raced upstairs and she was more verbal than usual, putting on a "was I a bad girl for staying too late at the party?" in a squeaky voice. She even counted out 10 spankings. She NEVER talks cutesy and mostly just says what feels good in bed, but apparently she has that freak in her when she lets it loose. It was amazing.