Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along." Quote by Rumi.

I found this today and I absolutely love it:
About me
"Not every soul I touch is mine to keep, but each one I touch is mine to shape and mold. I strive to better each one, and in doing so, better myself." ~Despoena Calypso

I am more of a Daddy Dom looking for a 24/7 relationship, but I always like to play as well and experience all forms of BDSM. Tell me your dreams and desires and we can see if we can't make them come true.

I saw this on another profile and it sums up how I feel.

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man’s rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior. She came from his side to be equal... under the arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved."~Unknown

I am looking for my mental equal but yet someone submissive by nature. I have a very kinky side at times and a very loving nature at times. I am at my best when the two come together with someone I trust and that can give me their complete trust as well. I don't mind earning that over time as that is the only way to have complete trust.

I am seeking a woman that can utter these words when we are joined together as one.

I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man that will compel my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman."
Anais Nin

That being said I get asked often enough, are you for real? How come you are single and my usual answer it I refuse to settle as I would rather be alone than settle. I refuse to accept just anyone. I get offers and opportunities but I don't want just "any woman" and I deserve more than just "any woman".
I am an AWESOME person so I want and deserve someone Awesome. I am smart and funny yet kind and caring. I am ambitious, a hard worker and a professional. I am well educated, well rounded and well versed. I am a man of my word. I value my time and the fact that it is limited. I will do the same for you especially when it is "our time"I am honest but tactful while still clearly communicating. You will know where I stand and how i feel at most moments, sometimes with just a look.I am generous. I give easily of my time, my money, my things, my knowledge. Don't take advantage of any of these as our friendship will come to an end. I am very understanding (although I don't tolerate fools well) and am willing to offer an open heart, a listening ear and my best suggestions if wanted. There is much more to me than this short paragraph but this should give you an idea of who I am and where I come am coming from.