I started writing after a break up. A girlfriend suggested I write a sort of diary from when things started to go wrong up to the actual split. It was supposed to be cathartic but I found that I couldn't be honest about my part in it and that I was making things up. So I ditched the whole project in favour of just making things up !
It got to the point in one of my stories that the characters needed a love scene so I wrote it and got a bit carried away, that's when I discovered that I enjoyed writing erotica.
Then I had to get a male perspective so I took it to the Wine Merchant (I live above the shop and we’re friends) and asked him if he'd read it and point out anything that I'd got badly wrong from a male point of view. So he sat on a stool and I sat on the table and I actually watched him get hard just from reading it.
That's when I found out I was actually good at it.
He was really embarrassed but it was such a thrill for me.
Madison Masturbates: https://www.lushstories.com/stories/flash-erotica/madison-masturbates