Quote by lucky7gal
To all who have commented and been following this feed:
I figured I owed a conclusion to prettyjoanne's friend's trip. Yes I confess I was the hasty girl who figured meeting someone I had known for less than two months was a perfectly okay thing to do. I took some of your advice and verified her identity before I jumped on the plane to Oklahoma. I won't get into too much detail here as maybe someday I'll find time to write about;) But yes there was sex...A LOT of sex! Some of it was enjoyable though most of it I feel lacked foreplay and was somewhat painful for my virgin body. I bet on my first horse races picking winners in 6 out of 9 races. I got the quick tour of OKC and got to binge watch 90 day fiance with the person I'd been critiquing the show with for a month lol. We crammed alot into 48 hours. My time in airports was hell! Delayed flights and missed connections on my way back caused me a lot of stress as I was falling out of the timeline I had set with my family...I was so afraid I was going to get caught in a lie I spent $1,200 on a one way ticket home just to be home 6 hours earlier and stay on the timeline. I don't regret the experience but as I sit here I realize I will use my better judgement next time. And I also will be taking out travel medical insurance next time I go! 3 days after I got back I was admitted into the hospital had to have surgery...that wouldn't have been a pretty bill if it had of happened while I was in Oklahoma.
**I'm prepared for feedback so don't sugar coat it.
Quote by lucky7gal
I had a thought this morning while reading the vast array of responses to this feed. No one has taken this girl's mindset into consideration. Maybe she's being as careful as she thinks she can be/is necessary given her personal circumstances. Maybe she has a family/career that limit how open she can be about travelling thousands of miles to meet someone she obviously feels is worth the time. Maybe she's tried to pursue online relationships over an extended period of time and its caused her nothing but heartache and a greater fear of rejection than just jumping in with both feet early and knowing if its going to work out or not. I'm not saying this girl shouldn't take some caution if she intends to do this...I'm only saying don't judge a book by its cover. We are all from different walks of life on lush and some of us have the luxury to openly pursue more endeavors than others of us could ever dream of. If I were the older woman I'd be more afraid the youngster visiting is looking for a sugar mama;)
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