I am a straight woman but I find myself able to get off by watching women more in porn at times. I don't have any friends I would ever even consider hooking up with as most are straight anyway but I do not find them attractive in the sense of messing around or ruining a friendship. I hope this makes sense. Anyway, where do I even start and how do I go about even flirting with a woman and seeing what happens? I am new to this. I do not want a relationship with one I just want to play a bit...maybe.
go to yourb local gay bar or on gay dating sites I hope this helps you
I have the same question regarding having a sexual encounter with another guy. I have fantasized about it often, but not experienced it with another adult male.
I know it is not easy to start. Although I had a different experience. My best Childhood friend and I had been playing around for months and then this one-day things changed and we were having great sex. We were younger (edited by admin for content) and had not idea what good sex was. We are still trying to figure that out.
There are more women out here that have an interest in other women than you may think. A Lesbian Club in another city may be a good option, but a dramatic step. One you may not be ready for at this time.
Maybe you have a close girlfriend that you could share that some woman have Lesbian feelings and may or may not ever act on them. In a most general way, without indicating you too have these feeling.
I am sure there are many other women on Lush that would be more than willing to assist you.
I care for men and women both equally.
That's a toughie. I would suggest you do what I did after my divorce and I wanted to fulfill my bisexual fantasies: look around for a good hookup/dating site - you can usually post a free profile, and start getting a feel for the women on there. Be careful: there are plenty of strange people on these sites. When you find somebody that sounds sane and un-evasive about things, set up a meet at a bar or a Starbucks and talk in person with them. I hope you're successful in whatever you do, but don't put yourself in a risky position, and don't EVER have the first meeting at your or their home.