Quote by Jessica_Heart
Red and whites don't make it to my page though, that's just lazy!
But... ?
Quote by Jessica_Heart
Red and whites don't make it to my page though, that's just lazy!
=== Not ALL LIVES MATTER until BLACK LIVES MATTER ===
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But... ?
Quote by Jessica_Heart
I kid you not, I thought of your avatar! Hahahaha... I remembered seeing it on another post.![]()
=== Not ALL LIVES MATTER until BLACK LIVES MATTER ===
Quote by Jessica_Heart
Red and whites don't make it to my page though, that's just lazy!
Quote by TeilaWolfe
How about mine? :P Is mine creative enough to pass?
Lush is a secret side of me that not many people in my life know about. I also like to keep the mystery which is why I don't put up any real pics. It doesn't make me untrustworthy, it just makes me feel safer. I hate guys who keep asking me for Pics and such so I don't put any up, cause as soon as I put anything even slightly real for others to see, they pressure me into posting more and more. And if I refuse they get all jerk like and abuse me. I agree that people should steer clear of the default, but they don't have to change it completely, just add a twist to it. Something that people can identify as you, as an individual and not just another random.
Quote by BiMale73
But that makes it even worse![]()
Quote by Jessica_Heart
Who said anything about creativity?.....
Quote by TeilaWolfe
I'm the one who mentioned creativity obviously... You say red and white's don't make it for you, mine's not red and white.
Quote by Jessica_Heart
Well don't I look stupid... I thought you were asking ME if it was creative enough to pass MY intensive screening process. But since I didn't say creativity was essential you couldn't have been... jumped the gun on that one!For me it's about sticking out among the crowd. It could be a picture of 'shit on a stick', a black square, or one of the handy lush avatars to choose from. Just something.....ANYTHING.
*don't mean to debate, trying to get my post count up....
Quote by TeilaWolfe
Lol same here. But I guess mine wouldn't pass your test then? :P
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I...think...I....Like you!![]()
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Quote by LadySariel
I use my real pic and no one in my life knows about lush. I think people don't have pics for different reasons.
Some aren't comfortable in their own skin and others don't want to risk being recognized.
I think it's sad that some people feel they would be unfairly judged if they included a real picture of themselves.
=== Not ALL LIVES MATTER until BLACK LIVES MATTER ===
Quote by Nikki703
Not having YOUR picture as your AV doesn't bother me at all, But leaving it to the generic red face does. I understand you wanting your privacy but it would be nice if you at least posted a pic that depicted something about you. And no guys, that doesn't mean a generic cock if you think you have a big one, LOL!
But I do get upset when a person leaves their profile totally blank. It would nice to know something about them, likes and dislikes, etc. I don't think that is too much to ask for!
I will chat with or friend a person because we connect and not because of their AV.
Quote by CurlyGirly
Lush Witness Protection Program.![]()
True story: I had about 5 or 6 pics of me uploaded to my image gallery. They were obscure because I edited them where you could barely make out my features, but you got the general idea of my face. Since I was barely recognizable, I made the images available for anyone on my friends list to see. A little while after I first joined the site, some sicko decides to PM me a print-out of one of my pictures with globs of his cum all over it. I sent this sicko a message in response that even scared the shit out of me. I was so furious and disgusted and even terrified. My message must have scared senior sicko into submission because he promptly deleted his account.
Needless to say that with the exception of a picture of me wearing a cute pair of shoes (feet only) and a couple of shots of my favorite makeup out of my collection, my personal photos are no longer available for anyone's viewing. And now some sicko probably has 5 or 6 images of me saved to his desktop. Perhaps shared them with friends. Found some sort of way to reverse the effects I used to make my pictures obscured. Started a website. Photoshopped me onto someone else's naked body for a profit. Who knows? I literally make myself sick every single day thinking about that shit. As dramatic as this is gonna sound, I truly feel like I've been virtually . I've thought of deleting my account pretty much every day since that incident. I talk myself out of it because the damage has already been done.
And that was just one sicko that decided to make me aware that he was a sicko. My pictures could be a click away from anyone on this site who's ever seen them. And who's to say this sicko didn't just create another account the moment he deleted his? And who's to say that was the only sicko here out of nearly a quarter of a million members?
And yes, I'm aware of the risks of uploading an image, because even if you're careful people with ill intent will make a way. Yes I should have been more private with my pictures. But this site is like home to me and I just wanted to add another facet of myself to it. I doctored the shit out of a few selfies in my cell phone and uploaded them. But some people are just here to fuck shit up.
So keep that in mind the next time you decide to judge someone who's reluctant to use their own images on here.
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