What is the most effective way to give yourself a hard spanking that will have the desired effect, leave some marks and be remember every time you sit down for a few days.
Thanks in advance
Ian
Quote by LucyLou62
Totally agree
Quote by colin123
A paddle can be used easily enough, I have done it but much prefer wife to spank me, especially for a specific thing I have done.
I much prefer to be spanked my my wife too, but the most effective implements I have found for self spanking are rubber and leather tawses. It might be my lack of flexibility but paddles, crops and canes don’t work for a self spanking, and plimsolls are ok but only allow me to spank one cheek to a reasonable level (though still not that great). Sometimes my wife will make me spank myself while she touches herself, which I find an incredible turn on, but I generally prefer to be bent over the arm of the sofa or restrained over our spanking stool for her to administer it.