Guys, how painful was it for your girl when you first gave her her first buttfucking? On a scale of one (absolutely painless) to ten (excruciating) how was the entry? On the same scale, how was the fucking. Using the same scale, how sore was her ass after your buttfucking?
For me personally, 10, 7-9, and 5-6. Took me a while to get used to it but now I love it. Entry is still 2-3 though.
I was going to be a smart ass and say it was a “1” for me. Butt I won’t go there.
Instead, I’ll offer this - it took us weeks to get ready. At first some rimming, then a finger, then two, then toy play...By the time we began to seriously consider full anal penetration she was very ready and asking for it.
I won’t presume to rate her pain for her. Although we certainly both agreed the sex made it worth trying again and again.
Being gentle and plenty of lubrication, will make the experience enjoyable for both parties
We played and toyed around making sure she was very wet, and along with plenty of lubrication. She says entry was an 8, fucking was a 7-8, and soreness was a 4-5.
When she gave me the go ahead, I took several weeks licking, fingering, and toying her ass. Played in her ass daily leading up to it. There was still some pain, but there was pain the first time I put a butt plug in it. She knew what it would feel like and she even drank a tall glass of wine right before. I don't know if that helped, she still says it didn't hurt!
First gf I ever did it with it seemed like it was about a 2-3 for her. First wife? She was at 11 if I went near her with a finger. We tried several times as she wanted to give that to me but we never got beyond a bit of fingering. Other gfs usually 3-5. Butt really? I think you should be asking women this question.
The 1st time with my wife; we were in the shower; I was hard as a rock & super horny. I was rubbing my dick in the crack of her ass & gently guided it to her ass hole opening. I had water & a little soap which helped me slide my dick in her ass & it was AWESOME. She said it hurt alittle so from 1-10 I would say maybe a"3"?
It was a gradual build up over a few weeks. She wanted to try it. Daily playing, fingering, licking, toying her ass. When we finally did the deed, she boozed a bit, her idea. We did a long foreplay leading up to it on a cold, winter, lazy afternoon. By the time I first fucked her ass, she had had a large, sort of thick toy in her ass while we fucked. There was some pain in the early play stage, but she took my cock fine and eventually became an anal slut!
There were two woman for which I was their first anal experience.
One found (for the first time, and each future time) both the initial entry and the actual fucking to be very pleasurable. She was able to achieve climax from it. However afterward she would say she was a bit sore for 2 or 3 days, and she also didn't like how it felt after I came inside her (read: she ran to the bathroom)
The other did say the initial entry was a little uncomfortable. I'd guess maybe a 5. The fucking was probably more like a 3. Afterward she had no complaints (that she admitted to at least), and found the feeling of my cum inside her to be nice.
i am not a guy LOL first time i got my ass fucked Hurt like Hell at first,but i was cumming within 10 mins . i ask for it and may had pick the wrong cock for the first time, he was long and very thick. i Love anal from the first time
Always go slow and gentle.
Lotsa Lube.
Use anything from surgical lube to coconut oil.
Coconut oil can be great for a mutual, full-body massage to start the proceedings.
If they want to just shove 'It" in, get a large toy and shove 'It' into them, so that they really know what it's like.
The post-orgasmic cuddle can still be the best part of life.
The first time I fucked a girl in her ass I had no idea what I was doing. I don’t think she had any idea either. We had both seen things in videos and one night at a party in college, we went up to my room and she told me she wanted to give it a try. In retrospect, I don’t see any way that the entry could have been painless for her as I pretty much pushed right in. Looking back, I feel bad for the poor girl. The sex itself felt awesome so I didn’t last long at all which may be why, despite the rough entry, she didn’t have any soreness complaints later on.
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