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Why do you think there's fewer - if any - female "perverts"?
You don't have to look hard to find a man that's practically into anything, or likes a bit of . But you need to be a PI to find a female "pervert".
Why do you think women aren't perverse? So to speak.
sprite
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pervert:
Noun: A person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.

for the record, i object to the use of the word pervert - it suggests that the sexual urges and fetishes we indulge in are unnatural. Quite the contrary, they are quite natural and there is nothing wrong with any of us, be we into being tied up, cross dressing, dressing up as furry animals, role playing pirates, being fucked in the ass, having group sex, sex with the same gender, pissing on each other, being spanked, etc. all of that is perfectly normal behavior in my book.

now, if you're asking why there are not more women who are sexually adventurous, may i suggest you just take a look around at the women of Lush? i think you'll find as many 'diry girls' into a wide variety of kinks as you do guys, perhaps even more.

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Because men dont mind it when women perve on them?? biggrin
Dirty_D
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Because men dont mind it when women perve on them?? biggrin


exactly! a guy who wants to wear his gf clothes, be tied up and spanked is perverted. Agirl who puts on her bf's shirt/jeans asked to be tied to the bed and whipped is just hot! lol
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I don't think that I have ever met a woman who is not a "perv"... We just keep it between ourselves...(unless we are on Lush..lol)
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Dancing_Doll
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Actually I've known a lot of conservative guys. A lot of guys think they are sooo dirty but once they get past the typical "ultimate fantasy" of a MFF threesome, the sense of adventure quickly dries up.

I've known more truly kinky girls than truly kinky guys. Guys may watch more porn or be more fixated on sex, but that doesn't mean they are perverts in the true sense of the word.

I think perversion is an evolving trait as well. It's something you either embrace and nurture or avoid and hide from.
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pervert:
Noun: A person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.




With that correct definition in mind, I can see why you (and lots others, I'm sure) would find the term offensive.

I've used the word wrongly, I think. Whenever I refer to a 'perv' or mention that somebody's 'perving' on me, I'm referring to creepy behavior, not to their specific kinks. If a guy is turned on by my feet or shoes, I'm cool with that (my bf kind of is), but if a guy obsessed about them, couldn't stop staring at them, or couldn't have sex with me unless they were more prominently involved than me, then I would probably say they were 'perving'. It's not even a fetish thing; if somebody just leers at my tits or gives me that wierd stare that sends chills down my spine, then that's 'perving' too.

Why I just spent 5 minutes discussing the wrong definition of a word, I'm not sure...other than to say that along with the wrong definition, lots of people mean no disrespect to sexual fetishes and preferences by using it.

I think I'll use it less now.
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Yeah i was gonna say i use the word 'pervy' when described letcherous old guys who stare at my tits and slap my ass. Having unusual fetishes isnt pervy unless you're creepy about it.
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I tend to think of a perv being someone who directs sexual attention towards someone uninvited, rather than it being particularly related to "perverse" fetishes or desires. The dictionary may say one thing, but the meanings of words in common use does change depending on how they are used. Sometimes it is fun to check out what the urban dictionary has to say - http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=perv

Maybe women are just better at hiding it

I for one and definitely more pervy than my bf
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Actually I've known a lot of conservative guys. A lot of guys think they are sooo dirty but once they get past the typical "ultimate fantasy" of a MFF threesome, the sense of adventure quickly dries up.

I've known more truly kinky girls than truly kinky guys. Guys may watch more porn or be more fixated on sex, but that doesn't mean they are perverts in the true sense of the word.

I think perversion is an evolving trait as well. It's something you either embrace and nurture or avoid and hide from.



Would you say that there are more "pervy" or "dirty" possibilities available to women? To most guys being penetrated is probably the kinkiest or perviest thing that can be done. Other than that it's.. see hole---- fuck hole. Whereas women have more available input stations. Women can be DP'd, fisted, figged (altho technically so could a guy), the list goes on and on. Just curious.



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Quote by sprite
pervert:
Noun: A person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.




With that correct definition in mind, I can see why you (and lots others, I'm sure) would find the term offensive.

I've used the word wrongly, I think. Whenever I refer to a 'perv' or mention that somebody's 'perving' on me, I'm referring to creepy behavior, not to their specific kinks. If a guy is turned on by my feet or shoes, I'm cool with that (my bf kind of is), but if a guy obsessed about them, couldn't stop staring at them, or couldn't have sex with me unless they were more prominently involved than me, then I would probably say they were 'perving'. It's not even a fetish thing; if somebody just leers at my tits or gives me that wierd stare that sends chills down my spine, then that's 'perving' too.

Why I just spent 5 minutes discussing the wrong definition of a word, I'm not sure...other than to say that along with the wrong definition, lots of people mean no disrespect to sexual fetishes and preferences by using it.

I think I'll use it less now.


I use this word the same way. To describe creepy behavior. Which of course is not the true definition.

I agree with Her Royal Spriteness in that any fetishes or so called "abnormal" behaviors are NOT pervy as long as no one is getting hurt (severly, LOL) and it is being done consentually. People who push the envelope are not pervs but Sexually Adventurous.

And I believe there are as many or more sexually adventurous women as men, especially when it comes to being with the same sex.