as a man - no way i would do it, physical, mental, emotional, not done it so far, no plans to start now!
as kinkymale - not abuse but a bit of kinky stuff
I agree that ABUSE is unacceptable, period. Now what each person considers ENJOYABLE, or STIMULATING, with a WILLING partner can often times LOOK like abuse from others who don't share that desire or enjoyment. So to each their own. But abuse is just wrong.
No. I prefer no violence.
I could show you INCREDIBLE things...
Wow - so many women in this thread opening up about being survivors of sexual abuse! So proud of you, and I'm glad you're okay and hopefully healing!
Some men do like to abuse women. This is a sad fact. No woman likes to be abused. To be a little more clear about what abuse is:
BDSM: Not abuse, as all true BDSM is consensual.
Non-Consensual BDSM: Actually just abuse, not BDSM at all.
