I've seen a few similar threads here, but they're always for women and I sense the problem may be a little different. In essence, my sexual partners are rarely (if ever) capable of making me orgasm. I've been with several different women and tried just about every kink and fantasy under the sun, but every time I reach orgasm it's through masturbation. I enjoy the sex, it turns me on and I can come really close to orgasm, but so far I've been pushed over the edge once. It's not an exclusively negative thing, the ability to have 4-5 hours of continuous sex almost makes up for it, but I'd still like to be able to finish naturally. I don't know what I expect from you guys, but help me?
Rubbing oneself to orgasm is very different than achieving orgasm through sex..I think well made may have a point. Maybe do plain old missionary may help..either that ot perhaps a finger vibrator that u insert between you and your partner to help ease it along. Do u ah cum..ah fast when alone or does it also take a long time? What is your fantasy when u ah do yourself? Perhaps it is the fantasy that helps..u cum. Just some thoughts how frustrating...huge hugs
How much porn do you watch?
This(as many here can attest) can negatively affect your ability to orgasm.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
You've already received some sound advice. But I'll add that you may be over-thinking it.
You may be so used to not climaxing that this is what's at the forefront of your mind every time you have sex. Just relax and let the experience take you.
Trying to orgasm can be your biggest downfall.
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It is anxiety that is short changing your experience. All I can say is to relax, just think only of your own experience during sex. Don't concentrate on anything such as a fantasy or tdying to maje her orgasm. For now just feel the fun: feel her warmth on your penis, her wetness, the grip of her vagina, her pubes and breasts under your hands. Don't think of anything, just feel the experience. That's what I was told to do. After my second tour at Kandahar I can not achieve an orgasm. Not even while jerking off. I can maintain an erection and that took some time, but I can't blow my load. The problems are in my head. Anxiety. I couldn't even walk through a shopping mall, too many people. Anyway, hope this technique works for you. Hasn't done shit for me but might help you.