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Nerdzilla
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I'm no billionaire, but I try to give back every time I can. I bought a bit of breakfast for a homeless woman outside the grocery store the other day. She didn't give a shit. lol so in the selfish vs selfless age old question, I think I was selfless that day. ;D
Rainbow Warrior
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The Southern Poverty Law Center, The ACLU, The Nature Conservancy, Greenpeace, NWF, WWF, Southwest Indian Foundation, Daily Kos, Elizabeth Warren, and Bernie Sanders get most of my contributions.
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Like, I money them regularly? Or big name-on-the-building giving back?

Providing it's the former, ACLU, RAICES, Bloodworks Northwest, Wonkette (Rebecca Schoenkopf), The Washington Post, and a few others, in rotation. The named entities receive money monthly (some more than just money, like Bloodworks Northwest).
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I''ve donated to a few causes and at times even my time.
Active Ink Slinger
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I think the question is not being answered here. And my example is Anita Roddick.
Lurker
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How much is for tax purposes?

And how much is just because you don't really care?

Personally, I stopped caring after I made enough to sustain my lifestyle.

If money doesn't mean much to you, is it still benevolent to sacrifice it to help other people?

Or maybe helping other people is just another drug to get you "high"?
The Linebacker
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Giving your money to the community and the needy and poor is all good, but it seems like you're really taking it to the next level when you give your personal time and labor for that.
Lurker
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I have a few charities am fond of, I try to do what I can and think if we just gave a little extra kindess to others then the world would be a happier place. Giving back doesn't nessarcy mean money, it can be time, or maybe just being there for someone else when they need someone, and I think the true meaning of doing such is just helping another when you can, not out of obligation but because you genuinely care and want to help etc.
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I''ve donated to a few causes and at times even my time.



I use to spend a lot of time after work w/ special kids/adults but I stopped because some families would make it a big deal of how I dressed--may be even the liberty spikes?
I unfortunately did stop hosting Easter DIY day at the hospital I'm a patient/member at because one family kept making a scene. Mind you, they rarely ever visited and their child did expire.

I write out checks to certain cemeteries to help out families who truly don't have the money for wake or burial arrangements.


FYI : please pay for your funeral and not just pay for life insurance plan.
Pick casket, gravestone(bronze, granite, marble,etc.,etc.,) weekday or weekend(even though weekend cost more) do you want a wake and burial on same day? Flowers? Which church do you want to perform ceremony? Music? Any personal items you'll want to take w/ you. Clothes you'll like to wear(at least a list).
Oh, have flash drive of pics too, be helpful on how you want others to see you on your day. Take a lot of pics so its easy for family member to put slide together and to blow up a few into poster size to be displayed at wake.
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Giving your money to the community and the needy and poor is all good, but it seems like you're really taking it to the next level when you give your personal time and labor for that.


I've seen people for free... a lot. But a lot of my benevolence comes from my desire to prove myself right. I've paid for patients to have MRIs after their health care has denied them. But a lot of that is not only to do what's right but also to prove that I'm right.

I think it's my OCD personality. I can't let things go if they are factually wrong.

I think that's the main difference between people like me and the people that just want to make money.
Lurker
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I am poor. Give me money.
Lurker
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I donate when I can, always happily.
Active Ink Slinger
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I consistently donate to our local food bank and homeless shelters. I have donated time this year for thanksgiving and hope to for Christmas
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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It took me awhile to find a charity that didn't spend another $100 in postage trying to get me to donate again.

The winner: Habitat for Humanity. I give money to them every year. I give money to a local theater group most years too (they need it especially this year!).
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Every year, for the past twenty-plus years, instead of giving Holiday Gifts to relatives or friends we make a donation to the local animal shelter in their names.
Active Ink Slinger
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I give till it hurts. But I asm very careful who I give to.
Active Ink Slinger
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Yes..the ASPCA and local no kill shelters, Habitat for Humanity, Catholic Charities. This year I am happy to have donated to a charity here in Georgia that gets the names of very child in foster care throughout the whole state and delivers a gift to them. This year all gifts from the 2020 Christmas Kids List has been completed early!
Advanced Wordsmith
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I donate to several environmental and wildlife organizations.
Rookie Scribe
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I give back personally to those I really see the need. Like I see them personally. rarely on organizations where they get cuts on the donated cash. I try not to give cash. But things or food that they need.
Lurker
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I've been giving to the ASCPA for the last 9 years, and RAINN for the last 3 years. I occasionally give to other organizations as well, when I can.
Active Ink Slinger
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Back in my university days when money was something I could only hope and dream of having someday, I did donate time and use of my car to help deliver hot meals prepared by the local Meals-On-Wheels to shut-in people. There have been many times when I've given a few dollars or even the odd meal to a homeless person with the hope that dollar didn't end up buying a cheap bottle of wine. The Salvation Army bell ringers at Christmas have received donations from me over the years. I've spent many hours on the couches at the local Blood Donation clinic.

I think the greatest pleasure or payback I've received was just before Christmas this past year, when I volunteered my time and computer to help residents at a local Senior Lodge put together a book consisting of some of their memories spanning their lifetime. When it was finished, over 1,000 pages had been printed and given to any resident, regardless whether they had contributed a memory or not. In many ways, seniors are our forgotten citizens and that is such a shame, as they have already contributed a great deal and still have much to offer society. Needless to say, I've made it clear to them that if they ever have need for such services in the future, to let me know. The thanks and expressions of gratitude I've received have been worth more than anything I can think of. Not only that, but some of their stories made for fascinating reading.
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Active Ink Slinger
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We give to the local Food Bank quite a bit. Additionally, we have bought groceries for people in the stores and bought meals for some of the military folk here. We have been blessed with good jobs and we feel it's only right to do what we can to help others.
Quantum Tease
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We send contributions to a variety of charities, most of which are animal related. But, we provide items for a local 'blessing box' pantry and, oddly enough, support monks in Norcia, Italy. It always sounds as if one is bragging, but it is really just stating facts.

By the way, if you don't happen to know it (and if you don't hate the company completely), "AmazonSmile" collects funds based on purchases and sends to a charity of your choice (well, from a list, of course). The ASPCA has gotten quite a lot in this way.
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Revisiting this topic because all of the things that I thought mattered prior to the pandemic, don't matter at all.

My in-kind donations (time and labour) have dropped substantially, with the exception of Fire/OEM/SAR availability. Well, that's not even a donation, technically, since I am paid for some X hours of my work. Small things like City Hall, where Fire is headquartered, being vacant since about April means we've been working out of an unheated industrial warehouse building, our shiny sparkly Emergency Operations Command Centre gathering dust.

Still donate money monthly to the previously noted organizations (ACLU, RAICES, MSF/DWB, etc.) but in some places my monthly donation has increased. So where I was previously donating an aggregate amount of about USD$2000/month, it's more like USD$6000/month now. I've added some organizations--especially those serving displaced mothers, without taking away from the others.

*MSF=Médecins Sans Frontières=Doctors Without Borders=DWB
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I give back and I buy a room for a homeless person when I can. I just did again. For one night, they can be safe and warm.

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2 Jul 2019

Quote by IMPÜRETHOUGHTS


I''ve donated to a few causes and at times even my time.



I use to spend a lot of time after work w/ special kids/adults but I stopped because some families would make it a big deal of how I dressed--may be even the liberty spikes?
I unfortunately did stop hosting Easter DIY day at the hospital I'm a patient/member at because one family kept making a scene. Mind you, they rarely ever visited and their child did expire.

I write out checks to certain cemeteries to help out families who truly don't have the money for wake or burial arrangements.


FYI : please pay for your funeral and not just pay for life insurance plan.
Pick casket, gravestone(bronze, granite, marble,etc.,etc.,) weekday or weekend(even though weekend cost more) do you want a wake and burial on same day? Flowers? Which church do you want to perform ceremony? Music? Any personal items you'll want to take w/ you. Clothes you'll like to wear(at least a list).
Oh, have flash drive of pics too, be helpful on how you want others to see you on your day. Take a lot of pics so its easy for family member to put slide together and to blow up a few into poster size to be displayed at wake.