Where do your eyes go when you're having sex (actual penetration, P in V... or A as the case may be)? Do you tend to focus on your partner's face? Are you watching what's going on down below? Maybe you're admiring the room decor or trying to catch the game on TV. Perhaps you keep your eyes squeezed tight shut the entire time. I dunno.
Post-avant-retro-demelodicized-electro-yodel-core is my jam.