I was in a packed elevator yesterday evening whilst leaving work. I ended up sort of pinned up against a guy, facing away from him. This is a 22 storey building, and pretty much all 2300 denizens (including myself) all leave at roughly the same time, via only eight elevators.
Point being, my ass (and the rest of me) was pushed into this guy. I realised someplace around the 7th floor that what I'd thought was his belt buckle or security badge pressing into my ass was, in fact, his very hard cock. It was a rather startling revelation. Anyway, feeling his cock through his trousers and my dress didn't do anything for me, although I felt a bit embarrassed.
I muttered "I'm sorry" as we exited the elevator. He was blushing and sort of stared at me for a second, until I turned to swipe out (this is a secure medical building). Question is, was my apology adequate? Would you, as a guy, feel embarrassed or angry if this happened to you? Or would you feel something else?
Thank you in advance for your time and consideration. ~Jennifer
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I think you handled it well, to be honest. Saying "I'm sorry" wasn't necessary, in my mind, but it was probably more of a nervous utterance than anything. You didn't do anything wrong, so there's no real need to apologize but maybe it would have seemed even more awkward to say nothing? It's still better than getting offended by it or humiliating him.. if it was indeed an involuntary erection. Seems to be the case since you didn't mention him grinding or pushing harder/more firmly into your ass. He's probably very thankful you allowed him to keep his dignity by not causing a scene.
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I think the apology is a graceful gesture, you are discreetly acknowledging what happened and letting him know you didn't take offence. It saves everyone embarrassment. I would feel relieved and grateful.
This would make a great Flash, by the way. No added sex scene, just the fleeting incident in the elevator.
I think you should have said, "I'm sorry I made it grow!" and then winked at him.
That would have been fun.
But to be honest, if a guy can't control his cock in situations like that then he is lost. He either took advantage of your bottom and made himself erect - in which case he would have blushed and felt like a stupid pervert when you said sorry, or he genuinely tried to suppress his erection and failed. In that case, I would have smiled and said sorry myself. Don't think I would have blushed but I might have when younger.
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I'd probably have to go with Verbal's answer as well, although maybe just pretending it didn't happen might have been less embarrassing still.
At least you didn't say "You're welcome", thereby pointing out his lack of basic manners in not saying "thank you" first in addition to the fact that you'd noticed his arousal. Being an accidentally horny guy is one thing, but being a rude accidentally horny guy is simply unforgivable.
I'm a lot shorter than you so this never happens to me. If I'm shoved up against a guy in a crowd, his cock usually falls in the small of my back where it doesn't press into me. I wouldn't have even acknowledged that I felt anything, and if any apologies were in order, it should have come from him.
You could've asked, "Was it good for you?"
As a guy, I can't say as I've ever been in that situation, but if I were, while I would appreciate the apology, I would probably be even more embarrassed. In that instance, I would be praying that she (you) either didn't notice or didn't say anything about it. But again, that's just me.
I'm sure there will be others who will comment about how they would prefer "something else" rather than an apology. lol
I think the sorry was adequate... I am sure his puzzled look was nothing more than "What are you sorry about"?... I tend to think he would be the one apologizing... for not finding a way to create a gap between you both... or adjusting himself in some way... Or was he puzzled that you didnt enjoy it in some way?.... hmmmm...
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I don't think an apology was necessary .Its not as if either of you could have moved . In the UK this type of thing happens on the trains quite frequently due to over crowding. I had a ladies bust in my chest on one train. We just had a laugh about it and some flirty banter exchanged. Like I said its not as if either of us could have moved so you have to make best of a bad situation.
Your apology was respectful & he should have found a way to move so his dick was NOT against you if you did not know him.
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